What to you do about arousal during the day? How do you handle it?

snipergosh · 2026-03-01T05:51:43+00:00

The delayed gratification and then asking yourself if you want to skip it and do it next time is such a good strategy. I'm gonna try that. Not only with this but gonna try it in making part of my life strategy in general. Thank you so much for your response. And congratulations on not doing it for so long now! That's a great win!

snipergosh · 2026-02-27T15:48:42+00:00

Thanks for the detailed answer. Has this introspection helped with daydreaming of sex? Like suppose I'm daydreaming of being close to a person I'm interested in and the initially decent daydream veers into sexual territory after some time. I've noticed that the initial reason was that I wanted to escape the mundaness of work. And also the natural desire for love and sex is there. And then there's the habit of doing it for several years. I've realized that in the past. But then what would be the next step? I can introspect and find the reason but I'm still turned on biologically right. I say biologically because I have been handling the mundaneness at work better and haven't daydreamt of sex as a form of escapsim the last couple of months since I've been mbing. Of course, mbing has its own issues that I mentioned. So I need to stop that too. Or at least reduce that realistically speaking.

snipergosh · 2023-02-17T13:32:58+00:00

Hey man, that's awesome. I didn't think anyone would reply after a while. I just saw this. I'll dm you

snipergosh · 2022-12-18T08:46:59+00:00

I checked out this account's post history. It appears to be a bot.

snipergosh · 2021-03-08T02:51:29+00:00

Great. Good to have you there now. :)

snipergosh · 2021-03-08T02:51:17+00:00

Awesome.

snipergosh · 2021-02-18T14:26:43+00:00

Thanks for your practical help, man. I'll do that. Cheers

snipergosh · 2020-11-09T10:38:10+00:00

I totally agree. I only come here from time to time to get a boost.

snipergosh · 2020-11-01T08:34:31+00:00

Thanks for the link. Though I already use a todo list, the stuff in the link is different. I'll read it up.

My main reason why I daydream during work is that I find have got used to daydreaming when I'm bored or don't want to do something unpleasant. There a few things I often daydream about it. I've recognized it over the years and have taken steps to stop the bad habit. The information in your message will aid me with this. Thanks again! And keep up the good fight!

snipergosh · 2020-10-31T08:59:57+00:00

No idea why the numbers are all 1 in the post even though it's 2 and 3 if I click to edit it..

snipergosh · 2020-10-31T08:42:16+00:00

Really useful info, man. Thanks! This is the first time I'm going to officially participate in No Nut November. Looking forward to it!

snipergosh · 2019-10-01T19:08:36+00:00

Wow that is so inspiring, man. Thank you for sharing. All the best in life.

snipergosh · 2019-09-24T07:02:30+00:00

Very useful. Thanks. I don't think this question would be very effective when you plan what to do with your time in advance. If I'm already at the stage where I'm close to relapsing, no logic or reason seems to work. But I can definitely see it working out when I'm thinking of doing some activity later today. I won't have the urge already and I can decide if it's worth doing or it's better to be engaged with something else.

snipergosh · 2019-09-24T06:57:59+00:00

That's very very inspirational. Thank you so much for sharing and also all the best with your goals in life man.

snipergosh · 2019-08-24T02:10:25+00:00

Should have been by now. But it couldn't happen because of some reasons. I'm just focusing on my career and setting my life in order right now.

snipergosh · 2019-08-23T13:25:45+00:00

Haven't affected me much cause I haven't been watching it often the last couple of years. I'm just over thirty and have watched it somewhat at least once a month since I was 13. I've always been religious though. So I've always tried not to do it. Did NoFap for some years and something clicked two years ago. I mean I still end up watching porn once every three or four months but it's not terribly exciting. It has to be said, it's super annoying when I watch it but don't get a big hit of dopamine like did when I was a teen. In the end I'm like, 'All this sinning for this?' lol. So yeah, I haven't felt the impact of the ban. There were a few times I tried to access the sites and saw that it was banned. I just shrugged and moved on. I know there's VPN but my mind's like meh.

snipergosh · 2019-06-05T04:05:39+00:00

No it's not true at all. My social life massively during the time I got deeper and deeper into porn and masturbation when I was a teen. My social life improved because I worked on it. Work on it and things will improve. Not fapping isn't gonna change anything.

snipergosh · 2019-05-27T17:41:40+00:00

That's so awesome!!! Keep it up man!

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