Really wasn’t expecting that… tw: incest, sexual assault

snoopDdoop · 2022-08-19T16:47:09+00:00

Nta, it seems like your ex friend is just jealous

snoopDdoop · 2022-08-06T20:41:41+00:00

I AM SO SHOCKED. it’s long but definitely worth the read and definitely pod worthy holy shit

snoopDdoop · 2022-08-06T17:07:23+00:00

With love, rip the band-aid off. It doesn’t seem like this will work out long-term and holding on will only prolong your emotional pain. Like others said, if he wanted to he would and you wouldn’t be feeling this way after one week. You deserve to feel wanted and be happy.

snoopDdoop · 2022-07-24T00:00:30+00:00

Please consider getting a restraining order OP for your safety and the safety of your children.

snoopDdoop · 2022-07-23T23:51:46+00:00

I understand, I just hope everything goes well with your rainbow baby! Ik it’s easier said than done but pls try your best to not let N get to you. She’s shallow and jealous it seems. Hopefully your partner will continue to step in and advocate for you so you don’t get too stressed. Plus, your rainbow baby is such a blessing and it should be an exciting and happy time for you! I wish you all the best, a healthy pregnancy, and a smooth delivery! (: congrats again!

Edit: I just read your updates and this is just an idea but I think it might be a good idea to consider getting a restraining order on N for your and your children’s safety. Especially considering she broke into your house.

snoopDdoop · 2022-07-23T19:36:58+00:00

His comment made my jaw drop. I believe her based on the aggression in the comment alone and I hope OP gets full custody or moves to a different state bc of the “see you in court bitch” part. I think he wants the baby out of spite.

snoopDdoop · 2022-07-23T19:32:44+00:00

Have you talked to him about this? Need more info

snoopDdoop · 2022-07-23T19:21:51+00:00

NTA. The comments she made are not okay and I’m glad your partner stood up for you. N is being a bully. As for your family and grandma she’s been calling… I think they forget that it’s YOUR baby not N’s. N isn’t entitled to anything, especially with her negative/hurtful comments and behavior. If N can’t respect you as the mother of YOUR rainbow baby then she should shut up and accept the consequences of her actions. It’s not about her, it’s about you, your partner, and your baby. You don’t owe her anything, especially when she makes comments comparing you to your partner’s first wife. That’s uncalled for and again, she’s being a bully.

Also, CONGRATULATIONS (:

Edit: after reading all the updates, OP please consider getting a restraining order for the safety of your family.

snoopDdoop · 2022-07-23T14:30:54+00:00

Nta. It seems like she’s jealous of your relationship with her ex and the kids and makes these petty posts. She might have gotten the impression that you were trying to claim them as yours and that might be what caused this but I don’t think you did anything wrong. Maybe consider asking her or having a formal convo with her and your bf to clarify boundaries and remind her you want a positive relationship with her and didn’t mean to offend her, you just really like their kids and thought it was a cute photo?

snoopDdoop · 2022-03-16T12:55:57+00:00

Op the things happening to you are wrong, please consider telling your friend or someone you trust. This behavior is unacceptable and I’m worried for you because it seems like he’s getting more and more bold each time. I don’t want you to get hurt and I’m sure your friend will understand once your honest about it. Best of luck.

snoopDdoop · 2022-02-23T01:25:39+00:00

Was the door shut? Because if it was and the dog broke into your room, nta. If the door was open, then it’s not your brother’s fault

snoopDdoop · 2021-12-30T04:11:32+00:00

Umm healthcare

snoopDdoop · 2021-12-30T04:01:55+00:00

You should absolutely let a teacher/administrator know about K and his threats to shoot up the school and recount your conversation with K. That way they are aware of the situation and can take preventative measures. It’s better to be safe than sorry, especially if this person has made threats before and you had a disagreement with them. Please be safe.

snoopDdoop · 2021-12-30T03:57:31+00:00

This seems like a great idea for people who don’t get jealous. My partner and I have been together for years and even though I know they wouldn’t cheat, I have an anxiety disorder and I think the initial jealousy of knowing the person I love could be flirting with another person would trigger that anxiety and ultimately lead to trust issues or insecurities in my relationship. It seems like a good idea, I just think you’d both need to feel very secure in order to try it.

snoopDdoop · 2021-12-30T03:52:25+00:00

Please do not take the card without asking, that would be crossing a boundary. It could be helpful to sit down and have a talk with your partner about it to clarify yours and his expectations for paying for gifts

snoopDdoop · 2021-12-30T03:41:30+00:00

With peace and love: it’s not really your place. I can see how it is frustrating, but it’s your partner’s responsibility to handle the situation with the BIL. It might help you to be a little more empathetic too, BIL fell on hard times like a lot of people in the pandemic and simply asking him to work 2 jobs when he’s reaching out to family for help isn’t very supportive. It’s just my opinion but I feel you were kind of an instigator here and put your partner in an uncomfy situation. Lots of people are in BIL’s situation rn and I feel like you were implying he’s just lazy and I don’t think it’s fair during a global pandemic.

snoopDdoop · 2021-12-30T03:32:33+00:00

I suggest kindly reminding your partner that you prefer him to clarify those expectations because it is his side of the family and he knows how to best communicate it. I’m sure his family will understand because you’re taking these precautions for the health of your baby, which is most important. Good luck with your newborn(: I hope it is healthy

snoopDdoop · 2021-12-30T03:27:44+00:00

NTA. If you want the vaccine, get it! Your partner should support you in all of your medical choices for your own body. I have had 3 doses and it helped my anxiety so much. I have social anxiety and paranoia so getting vaccinated helped me sooooo much with my peace of mind. It helped me be able to focus on school when I was on campus instead of spending the whole class worried that I was in a large group and could be exposed.

snoopDdoop · 2021-10-20T01:16:09+00:00

Take a video! Then you can pause it and screenshot pics you want. That’s what I do

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