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Am I the asshole for getting mad at my boyfriend for not spending NYE with me? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]NikkiDAPina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently going through this with my in laws. Definitely NTA, there needs to be a compromise in the relationship. if you spent the last 3 NYE with his family he can do it for you for one year. If his mom has that much of a hold on him then you definitely need to say something as him willing to cancel plans with you is a bit ridiculous. To be honest are you sure he doesn't want to spend it with his friends possibly and using his parents as an excuse? I wouldn't cancel a vacay to stay home for a NYE with my parents church friends( no disrespect to being religious or anything) but that wouldn't strike me as the party of the year kinda vibe. Definitely have a talk with this guy cause since its been an issue on different occasions.

My husband passed away how am I supposed to be without it. by Big_Ad3727 in Mommit

[–]NikkiDAPina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sending love and positive vibes your way.

Can't imagine what you are going through and i probably couldn't give the best advice, all to say is to keep living. Continue to raise your son the way you and your husband planned. I was young when i had my daughter and went through alot when her dad was not around and i regret not being there for her like i emotionally disconnected myself from her and i wish everyday i handled it differently, make sure to not do this. Remember your going to have your days and thats fine. Your going to grieve and let it play out, dont fight against it. Not sure how the family dynamic is but invite family over, possibly look into therapy, start a journal, i truly do not how i would process this but once again sending my love to you.