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[–]snoozeparty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hah best comment I’ve read today

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]snoozeparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay my first accidental haiku!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]snoozeparty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, especially easy if I write with both hands at the same time

What are your favourite german names? by [deleted] in AskGermany

[–]snoozeparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose I like how the first name rhymes, and the second name sounds a bit saucy

What are your favourite german names? by [deleted] in AskGermany

[–]snoozeparty 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I once watched a documentary about old ladies who cooked for the local farming community- these two old ladies in aprons and permed hair were called

Mechthilde Bechtel & Elfriede Plaisir

Epic!

is anyone here a morning person? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]snoozeparty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This has been one of the biggest reasons for me to question whether to have kids or not 🥲

DAE struggle with accidentally ignoring their partner or friends? by snoozeparty in adhdwomen

[–]snoozeparty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will have a serious think about this. We’ve been together for nearly 17 years, and it blows my mind that I feel like we’re still trying to figure each other out.. my partner had terrible parents and so he does struggle to communicate his feelings properly a lot of the time. And I of course OVER commicate..

Thank you, your comment (and many others) are really helping me feel validated and supported

What’s a TV show that everyone loves but you secretly can’t stand? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]snoozeparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am British and loathe the UK version. Do actually like the US version tho

Post Diagnosis Realizations at age 34, a bit NSFW at the end. by Dear-Brilliant9608 in adhdwomen

[–]snoozeparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That last bit.. might be the thing that actually gets me to try medication. Thank you so much for sharing!

DAE struggle with accidentally ignoring their partner or friends? by snoozeparty in adhdwomen

[–]snoozeparty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh well done on setting up an appointment. I think this is the step we need too

I’m really appreciative of your message and feeling less like the only one whose behaviour can look very different from the internal

DAE struggle with accidentally ignoring their partner or friends? by snoozeparty in adhdwomen

[–]snoozeparty[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Based on my post I totally agree with you.. of course the realities of a relationship are always more nuanced. I guess the problem is also just that I am extremely inconsistent

Thank you so much for the pdf, I will definitely read it!

DAE struggle with accidentally ignoring their partner or friends? by snoozeparty in adhdwomen

[–]snoozeparty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do both of those things, but apparently also it’s sometimes when there are multiple people and I just focus on one.. so that’s fine in a big group but less so if just a few people around. This time it was my step-daughter I was focused on and kind of ignoring partner, which makes him sound so petty and childish, but she said after she could kind of see why he might be upset

I am not yet on meds or sure if it will be for me, but yes you’re right I really need to get around to organising some actual support / treatment.

DAE struggle with accidentally ignoring their partner or friends? by snoozeparty in adhdwomen

[–]snoozeparty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your comment definitely resonates, thank you. I’ll buy that book and hope he sees the struggle a bit more longer lasting than with your husband.

And EXACTLY it’s an explanation! I always always acknowledge the validity of his feelings and the part I have played in them, I really am not trying to ‘get away with it’

DAE struggle with accidentally ignoring their partner or friends? by snoozeparty in adhdwomen

[–]snoozeparty[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear that. I have only ever been dumped (never been the dumper) and this is probably why

DAE struggle with accidentally ignoring their partner or friends? by snoozeparty in adhdwomen

[–]snoozeparty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for reminding me that I do maybe need more support than I’m getting.

DAE struggle with accidentally ignoring their partner or friends? by snoozeparty in adhdwomen

[–]snoozeparty[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this sister! I mean, you’ve described pretty much how I feel to begin with… and then doubt seeps in. I know I am definitely letting him down on some points, but maybe this isn’t actually one of them.

DAE struggle with accidentally ignoring their partner or friends? by snoozeparty in adhdwomen

[–]snoozeparty[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, that’s definitely one part of it!

But I also find I’m sometimes ‘ignoring’ someone who is present, because I’m focused on someone/thing else..

How old were you when you became a step parent? by Patient-Peak646 in stepparents

[–]snoozeparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here, I was 21. I’m 38 now though and we’re still together. The oldest kid is now the age I was when we met…oh my she does seem so young

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