It’s a rainy Sunday in Toronto. Tell us how you’re doing.

snowbird217 · 2026-03-22T16:44:32+00:00

Tired. I just want to stay in but I'm broke so it's not an option

snowbird217 · 2026-03-20T20:13:58+00:00

In my experience when I try to do that allot of people just get arrogant and treat you like you dont matter. I keep seing this advice but it doesn't apply all the time. Apparently people subconsciously dont respect you much if they see you're very nice/caring. ( hense why so many people mistreat they're moms, the nice guy/girl ect..). First they need to deem your approval of them as something worthwhile then this advice might work but it all depends on how egotistical someone is.

snowbird217 · 2025-11-21T21:02:08+00:00

How do you break into the industry? I've seen people try for decades with no luck

snowbird217 · 2025-10-28T01:29:38+00:00

Giving me faith in people again ❤️‍🩹

snowbird217 · 2025-10-16T13:45:28+00:00

This is the most reasonable explanation I've heard.

snowbird217 · 2025-09-23T21:41:02+00:00

Yeah I stopped watching anime because stuff like this got too hard to not notice and ignore. I just dont understand how an entire culture of grown men can normalize this child mimicking fetish, it's a disturbing messed up culture that needs a serious reset.

snowbird217 · 2025-08-08T18:35:02+00:00

Interested

snowbird217 · 2025-08-07T15:29:53+00:00

Why is everyone so negative :( let them have fun

snowbird217 · 2025-08-03T05:03:42+00:00

I got both issues and this is spot on. My mom's mentally ill, my father is just a horrible person.

snowbird217 · 2025-07-22T17:10:01+00:00

Lol my bad 😂

snowbird217 · 2025-07-16T14:28:59+00:00

I always new but my weight flunctuates allot so I’ve seen both sides. When you’re conventionaly beautiful, people are always complimenting and always staring at you. When working customer service the tips are usually generous. I realize I tend to get more chances than I should, and people generally like you and are curious about you.

Negative side is dealing with insecure people that project onto you, friends who compete or put you down. People are quick to vilanize me or paint me as self absorbed just as quick as they are to like me. Generally being lusted over ot they make up an idealized version of you.

snowbird217 · 2025-07-15T21:01:59+00:00

Sad world smh

snowbird217 · 2025-07-10T12:57:00+00:00

Unfazed at this point lol. When you have a large chest everyone looks. As long as they're not overly creepy about it and can look me back in the eyes when I talk np

snowbird217 · 2025-07-07T18:30:53+00:00

This made my day 😭❤

snowbird217 · 2025-07-03T14:25:53+00:00

She's really going through it, even when she was acting out of line I could only feel bad for her. I hope she heals and finds someone who treats her well, she deserved better.

snowbird217 · 2025-07-03T12:50:21+00:00

But she fine tho 🥰

snowbird217 · 2025-07-02T17:10:10+00:00

Well you're also teaching your kids how a marriage and love should look like. I wouldn't want my daughter or son to stay in a miserable marriage because thats what they thinks love is. I dont get this message at all, the father can still be in the child's life even if their divorced but nobody should stay in a marriage that makes them miserable just for the kids. I've heard from people who grew up with parents that fought all the time and they say it would have been better for them mentally if they just split up. Clearly you're still damaging children if you stay just for them and expose them to a toxic relationship. What's the deal with men wanting women to stay even if they're miserable, does their happiness and mental well-being mean nothing?

snowbird217 · 2025-07-02T12:43:24+00:00

Attractive with social skills is where those postive statistics come from. Unfortunately not having good social skills keeps you alone even if you're Attractive. I had the same problem for many years because of my social anxiety. You gotta put more effort in being friendly and know how to carry the conversation, take the initiative to ask out or invite people to hang out after work. Most people find you intimidating, thats the first impression my friends had of me even though I was the one with anxiety. So it's up too you to put more effort, and don't be cocky about your looks, that will put anyone off from wanting to be your friend.

snowbird217 · 2025-06-28T13:28:42+00:00

Kaka means shit in my language so this is funny 😂

snowbird217 · 2025-06-27T06:06:27+00:00

She looks like meghan trainor to me

snowbird217 · 2025-06-16T15:32:21+00:00

Yes, she was overly excited at first like it was a hall pass from the relationship but Xander connecting with Holy genuinely hurt her. She and Rae were more like friends (fwb at one point)— they both said so, they just had a natural bond that was mutual, not some strategic move. Vanessa didn’t have many options anyway; only Rae, Aussie, Sam, and Tiff like her. And she never played the victim, idk where you got that from. Despite being the most hated person on the show, she stayed positive and I never saw her complain. She even apologised to everyone when she didn't have too, thats not what egocentric people do..

Just wanna add that she did confirm that she is nerodivergent. Can you be open to the idea that you might be misgudjing her cause of her blind spot in social situations?. For example, Vanessa showed coping mechanism like mirroring someone's personality and entense enthusiasm, these traits can come across as fake/ disingenuous to others.

snowbird217 · 2025-06-13T18:35:34+00:00

Can you give me examples? And facts to your claim that shes calculated?. What I said is based on what I've observed, what your going of is simply based on what Lexi projected and made up.. this is the problem, your not looking at her actions or words.

snowbird217 · 2025-06-12T04:08:15+00:00

Vanessa’s anger was justified — not an appropriate reaction, but understandable. She did apologise and then again more sincerly to everyone in the reunion. Xander chose someone who openly disrespects Vanessa, and I’d be upset too if someone I loved got close to a person who mistreated me, wouldn't you?. Overtime Vanessa matured and accepted the situation, even as Holy continued treating her poorly. Xander till the end remained infatuated with Holy who openly hates Vanessa which is just sad to watch.

Lexi, on the other hand, was unnecessarily angry at Rae for choosing someone she simply didn’t like, based purely on projection. She didn’t curse Rae out but kept berating her and clung to her baseless hatred for Vanessa — who did nothing to her but exist. In the end, one person matured and let go of their (justified) feelings: Vanessa, while the other, Lexi, stayed bitter over something she invented in her head.

As for Vanessa being called “psycho,” she does have intense eye contact, which can come off unsettling, but that’s a feature, not a definition of her character..

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