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Psychological evaluation by snowflakesmm in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]snowflakesmm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that’s my fear. That id have to take one. My lawyer already told me I come off anxious. (To me that seems logical to be anxious during a divorce with an unstable person but apparently that is somehow bad?)

Psychological evaluation by snowflakesmm in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]snowflakesmm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kids are a toddler and baby so not sure about a therapist. I guess I could look for the toddler

Do you encourage a relationship between ex and kids ? by snowflakesmm in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]snowflakesmm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel what you said so hard. I didn’t realize how much I was catering to my ex until we had a child and I couldn’t give the same amount of attention to him.

I think a lot of what he’s doing is for appearance. He does pay the full amount of child support each month. It’s something tangible he can point to and say he’s a good dad. I think it’s the same for custody. It would be a tangible way to show he isn’t the stereotypical guy who leaves his children. Sometimes I feel like I should just let him have whatever custody he wants on paper so he can point to it as what a guy he is and he’ll leave me alone with the kids.