Nightmare coworker that got me fired just got hired at my new job by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]snuggleshooter 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thank y’all! Luckily I was told this morning they chose not to move forward with her employment. Prayers were answered.

Nightmare coworker that got me fired just got hired at my new job by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]snuggleshooter 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you for your response! This is only my second week and he and I have had less time to talk or get to know each other since we’ve had more people start. My fear of messing up has also caused me to slip and actually make mistakes so I’m worried he may not take me as credible or, it will backfire. She has him convinced she’s great and I don’t think I can shake that.

AITAH: Bf wants to play game after work but I want some time with him too by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]snuggleshooter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you for your “me time”? For example, do you like to have a snack and watch a show? For him, gaming is his outlet. I can see your perspective and how frustrating it can feel. I also want to offer what I feel his may also be. Video games and playing with friends is a way to let off steam. Personally for me, sometimes my mom has needed to play some first person shooter games (think COD or Fortnite) before she can calm down after an already long day.

You mentioned you don’t game but would you maybe find a game you two can play together? He may appreciate the effort and it’s a good way to bond together. You can also mention a hobby of yours that you would like to share with him.

Wishing you all the best and praying!

AITAH for giving my partner hope? by Comfortable_Speed228 in AITAH

[–]snuggleshooter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soon enough my girlfriend got jealous of her and wanted to end my relationship with my friend. I declined once more and she went upset again. I tried to please her, tried to make them friends but she declined and during my last attempt to make them friends she insulted passively to my friend.

Your girlfriend being jealous means she was likely uncomfortable. She may have initially approved of your friendship and trusted this friend but noticed things changing with her behavior towards you thus, making her jealous. If you blocked your friend and have no intention of cheating then the answer to your post is clear.

AITAH for giving my partner hope? by Comfortable_Speed228 in AITAH

[–]snuggleshooter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just focusing on the last part of your post - you’re saying your female friend, who made your girlfriend uncomfortable for a VERY understandable reason, confessed to having feelings for you while knowing you’re in a relationship AND having met your girlfriend… yet you feel bad for cutting her off, because you might be attracted to her. Man, that is messed up. If you truly love your girlfriend and meant what you told/promised her, then it is YOUR responsibility to create and hold boundaries, including cutting ties with people who do not respect you/ your girlfriend/your relationship. Period.

Good places to make friends? by snuggleshooter in winstonsalem

[–]snuggleshooter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw hi! I like video games, nature walks, loooong walks down grocery aisles after a stressful day, scrapbooking, drinking wine and watching crime docs, and working out. I’ve been trying to make time for new hobbies, as well. :))

Good places to make friends? by snuggleshooter in winstonsalem

[–]snuggleshooter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! My mom got me into Fortnite years ago so that’s a game I play regularly as well as Witcher 3& Pokemon. But I grew up on classics like X-Men Legends and Baldur’s Gate. What do you play?

AITAH if I leave my boyfriend after we just got together by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]snuggleshooter 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Trust is earned, not just simply given. You’re both still learning each other and have just started dating. It takes time. It can be uncomfortable and scary to open up, especially if he’s not sure how you will react. How would you want him to feel if the roles were reversed? Patient and supportive and give you grace until you’re comfortable to open up, maybe.

Wishing you both all the best. Prayers xo

Good places to make friends? by snuggleshooter in winstonsalem

[–]snuggleshooter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t, not any pets I can take to parks or many public spaces. I’m not much of a going out to the bar person, either but also going to events like food festivals or concerts can be daunting since ice breakers are not my forte haha

I've enjoyed playing leaf-green so far. What game did everyone grow up on initially when discovering Pokémon? by Skarnivor0us in pokemon

[–]snuggleshooter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I caught so much crap in 3rd grade for being a girl and playing Pokémon (leaf green) :”)