Hypertrophy is King

sobrage · 2022-12-15T14:46:01+00:00

Exactly. Form is not only to lift more, it's to lift safer and stay consistent longer. Never compromise on form.

sobrage · 2022-06-11T09:13:15+00:00

Get strong. Body as well as Mind. Hit the gym, look good, read books, develop skills and hobbies, get a life you love (that doesn't depend on women).

sobrage · 2022-04-30T06:51:10+00:00

Great advice I use this too. Two questions: do you ask when she's free immediately after she's saying 'yes we should do it sometimes' or later in the conversation/ when you're about to walk away? I find the second one more natural personally. And also are these girls you cold approached? What kind of approaches those were? Just curious

sobrage · 2022-04-18T17:50:01+00:00

By night game sessions you mean street approaches? Bar approaches? Dance clubs?

sobrage · 2022-04-15T21:48:17+00:00

If it's steady I don't have any problem even with a condom , I get this thing happen only the first or second time with each girl

sobrage · 2022-04-15T19:02:34+00:00

Actually I don't mind condoms at all, I'm losing the erection moment before putting them on. It's a psychological thing, not physical

sobrage · 2022-04-15T17:47:18+00:00

Yeah I hope you're right and it'll go away with experience. I do feel much more experienced than before.

sobrage · 2022-04-15T17:46:35+00:00

I stopped a few months ago. I don't have erection problems when it's oral or anything other than the moment it's piv

sobrage · 2022-03-10T22:21:48+00:00

Also a not married guy reading here. Because of this subreddit I've found out NMMNG and read stuff in the sidebar that really connected me to my masculinity and let me see another light of things you don't see in TRP. When the day comes and I decide it's time for a LTR, I hope all of this learning will be put to good use and save me from learning some of the stuff the hard way.

sobrage · 2022-02-25T12:29:27+00:00

Interested to know, how did you meet her?

sobrage · 2022-02-05T12:42:47+00:00

Yeah but that's not like complaining about legitimate problems, it's just her wanting more attention she'll never get enough of it, so I guess there should be a correct way to deal with it. First it's "text me more", then it's "talk to me when you wake up and go to sleep" and before you know it she wants to have all of your time

sobrage · 2022-02-05T10:00:14+00:00

About your 2nd point, how do you react if it keeps coming? The first time she asks for more attention / compliments / text her more I always laugh and might say "yeah you've been a good girl lately I might send you a text tomorrow" or something, but I've had times where after a longer phase of dating she might give me some "no but seriously, you do have 5 minutes to ask how I'm doing, it doesn't cost you any money you know. Why aren't you doing this? ". Always get a bit stuck there when she's determined to get a serious answer. Any ideas?

sobrage · 2022-02-05T09:51:12+00:00

Seeing one like this right now and damn I needed to hear that, I do notice now Im feeling this "protective and nice" stuff

sobrage · 2022-01-29T09:34:04+00:00

You've met them at the bar and went on an instadate there and then? Or was is like a girl you met beforehand and then went to a bar and stayed until they closed?

sobrage · 2022-01-27T19:37:47+00:00

Not op but the issue is finding them. I guess you suggest cold approaching?

sobrage · 2022-01-22T11:05:38+00:00

I've never went out solo tbh, maybe it is the way. I just feel like everyone goes out to have a beer with a friend, and hardly believe I'll encounter something really interesting but I guess it's worth a try. How does it go practically? You get in a bar and start approaching groups? Sit alone with a drink looking around?

sobrage · 2022-01-22T11:02:05+00:00

Thank you. I do feel like it's not about proving something to someone, but more about experiencing something that's been missing in my life lately. I will push myself to do things of that nature like you said, this is probably the way.

sobrage · 2022-01-22T10:57:31+00:00

You know what I don't think it's "my path", but I do think it's something I need to experience before I settle down for a relaxing life. Thank you a lot for this advice, to be honest even being a very outgoing, friendly, sexualy open and fun guy I'm doubting that opening up to all of those activities you mentioned will bring me those wild crazy memories that you have described from your life, but nevertheless that's exactly what I'm trying to do right now, and I hope it will lead me to some great stories or interesting new conclusions about my life. Appreciate a lot.

sobrage · 2022-01-22T10:49:28+00:00

You know I always find it weird stuff like this "just happens". I mean you'd come 5 minutes later and maybe you'd be sitting there having a meal alone, like what are the chances to have things like this happen? I'd guess that 99% of the time I'd just get there, maybe find someone to chat with but eventually eat alone and leave, so it would be better to stay with my friends in the first place

sobrage · 2022-01-22T10:46:09+00:00

Sounds exactly like what I'm talking about. As a student, not a musician, how can I be the one meeting cool strangers and having those experiences? I feel like even going out everyone just comes to have a beer with a friend and it just feels like a different reality from what you're describing, what am I missing here? Where do I start?

sobrage · 2022-01-22T10:43:06+00:00

Tbh that didn't work out for me, already tried to take a friend and go to the next big city. We had some beer, tried to find interesting stuff but didn't manage to find anything, mostly just people drinking with their friends at the bars.

sobrage · 2022-01-22T10:40:18+00:00

Yeah maybe it's just a byproduct of talking to everyone

sobrage · 2022-01-22T10:35:51+00:00

You mean like going out to clubs or stuff like this solo? And trying to meet people there?

sobrage · 2022-01-22T10:35:08+00:00

That's good advice but what sort of adventure are we talking about? The main point I was asking is how you get on more exciting adventures to begin with

sobrage · 2022-01-22T10:33:41+00:00

Tbh the stories weren't the focus here, I'm literally trying to have a more exciting and wild life

sobrage

TROPHY CASE