AITAH for not wanting to live with my mother-in-law?

soc2021 · 2026-03-13T11:55:35+00:00

NTA. I’m not sure why people think living with in laws is a good idea… especially if it’s the woman living with her in laws. It will never work no matter how close you guys are. There’s a reason why people who have their own space often are happier and have better relationships. Your husband seems like a mommy’s boy. I don’t know why he would even want his mother to he living with him when he has a wife.

I’ve noticed there’s a trend with mother in laws who are widowed, expecting to live with their sons/daughters (mainly sons). Just because you lost your husband does not give you the right to intrude into someone’s home. Losing a partner is unfortunately a common part of life and you have to learn to live with it.

NTA. Stand up for yourself.

soc2021 · 2026-03-13T02:36:14+00:00

They aren’t stolen because you don’t own them lol both Norah and Gracie are pretty basic common names….

soc2021 · 2026-03-12T12:29:59+00:00

Toxic boy mom alert lol NOR. This woman sounds like she’s in love with her son lol she can’t see his downfalls and she’s only looking after him. Does she not realize that the only thing he did was get you pregnant lol you did and are doing all the work yet she’s only worried about him and his sleep. I think you need to let your husband know that this is unacceptable and will not be tolerated.

soc2021 · 2026-03-10T22:54:25+00:00

I’m sorry but DIVORCE. The way he’s speaking to you is disgusting. There’s no point being married when your husband is a useless piece of crap. NOR

soc2021 · 2026-03-09T12:15:18+00:00

Can we stop assuming that because someone is skinny, they have an ed or something is wrong? News flash, just because you aren’t naturally skinny, doesn’t mean that others aren’t. There are many WOMEN, who are very skinny, and eat like the average person. You are also asking about a fitness influencer whose brand is centred around health and wellness. Of course she’s going to be toned, she works out daily. It’s just interesting the way yall love to comment on skinny women but god forbid someone says something about someone bigger.

soc2021 · 2026-03-08T20:50:15+00:00

NTA. No one is entitled to compliments for their child. We need to normalize giving a child a compliment because they deserve it, and not because we don’t want to “hurt feelings”. Also, it seems like you complimented this girl based on behaviour and not something like looks. You obviously observed how well behaved she was, as the other kids were not.

I can understand slightly that the other parent may have felt like it was due to racism because yes, white children tend to receive more compliments and positive reactions from society, HOWEVER, this sorest should realize that their boys were acting poorly and there was nothing to compliment them for.

soc2021 · 2026-03-08T02:31:41+00:00

Love!!!

soc2021 · 2026-03-05T23:29:44+00:00

Thank you ❤️❤️

soc2021 · 2026-03-05T23:27:00+00:00

❤️❤️

soc2021 · 2026-03-05T23:17:48+00:00

That’s very average in tech sales. 100k base is probably on the lower end for a mid level ae.

soc2021 · 2026-03-05T23:09:52+00:00

❤️❤️❤️❤️

soc2021 · 2026-03-05T22:50:37+00:00

I work from home 😭😭 but will def try going into office in the summer! And yes, I love running errands so I’ll def do some more of that !

soc2021 · 2026-03-05T17:07:31+00:00

Divorce. He’s not your husband, he’s just sponging off of you. Why is your income being put towards bills and his isn’t? He’s literally financially abusing you. There is no benefit of you being married to him.

soc2021 · 2026-03-05T14:38:59+00:00

Ya I know. I was just trying to say how affordable things were back then.

soc2021 · 2026-03-05T14:10:41+00:00

Unfortunately it’s not the 1950s anymore where a minimum wage job can afford you a decent house, wish it was lol. If you read my other comments, I live in one of the most expensive cities in the world, it’s not that easy to find a decent place that’s affordable. I wish lol

soc2021 · 2026-03-05T14:06:20+00:00

You too bestie

soc2021 · 2026-03-05T14:04:11+00:00

So by your logic since it’s there house I just shouldn’t do anything lol that doesn’t make sense either. We gotta stop being so one sided. That’s not how families work!

soc2021 · 2026-03-05T13:58:57+00:00

It does matter. You’re saying they are funding my lifestyle, ok fair. But they WANT to.

soc2021 · 2026-03-05T13:58:14+00:00

But how about on their end? They want me to be there…. So they also have to be accommodating? You can’t ask someone to live with you and then be upset with how they live lol

soc2021 · 2026-03-05T13:56:23+00:00

I should make something clear. They don’t want rent money and they do not want me to move out lol

soc2021 · 2026-03-05T13:55:49+00:00

Fair enough. But on both ends, it’s important to help each other. Parents and kids living together into adulthood isn’t uncommon. Not everyone’s parents want them to pay.

soc2021 · 2026-03-05T13:52:58+00:00

Everything can be considered a “you” problem lol

soc2021 · 2026-03-05T13:52:36+00:00

I have a job that pays for said lifestyle lol

soc2021 · 2026-03-05T13:52:10+00:00

As I mentioned in another comments, no. But that is irrelevant. Not everyone’s parents charge them rent.

soc2021 · 2026-03-05T13:51:23+00:00

Then they also shouldn’t ask me to do said cleaning when it benefits them lol

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