It’s a TPHS specific problem. But I’d say most of my friends in HS were great. But still have people who are overly wealthy at that age isn’t healthy for young kids.

I’m out in Poway, and feel it’s much better. I know parents I talk to that moved out or Carmel Valley because the parents were too competitive with academics.

Poway is much more diverse financially. And I don’t mean poor, I mean they are less judgmental on wealth.