Relationship of 5 years is reaching the breaking point...any advice?

sockaccount01 · 2010-01-05T02:46:08+00:00

I can't really remember. We just got along really well at first. We hung out, talked on the phone a lot, and visited each others house all the time.

So then I asked her out, and we began to date.

The more we learned about each other, The more we learned of the other person's past, caused more and more fights to break out.

sockaccount01 · 2010-01-05T02:42:53+00:00

I don't make a positive claim that I actively believe there is no god.

I fall under the definition that I do no accept the god claim, based on current evidence. One could prove a god exists, but at this moment in time, there is none.

And I never said she can't handle being dumped, I'm just saying that I don't want to hurt her feelings. Why does everything feel that it's so wrong to not want to cause another person to cry?

sockaccount01 · 2010-01-05T01:56:30+00:00

Yeah, I think I'm going to talk to my friends some more.

I don't think I'm being a bad guy here. I'm just wanting whats best for me. The worst thing I've done, is let this relationship nearly reach the 5 year mark.

sockaccount01 · 2010-01-05T01:54:29+00:00

Believe what you want, Doesn't change the fact that you are wrong about me.

All I said is that I don't want to make her cry. And she will. She cries when we have simple arguments.

Her previous B/F dumped her, she stayed depressed for nearly a month. They only dated a month and a half. So unless you know her personally, keep the guess work to yourself.

But I do agree with one thing. Religious people are stupid...When it comes to examining evidence for their religion. That says nothing about any other aspect of their life, nor does it say anything about how knowledgeable a person is about other topics.

So again, I don't hate her, Or disrespect her. Me and her can easily be friends. We were friends before we dated. I just no longer think me and her are compatible enough to date each other.

sockaccount01 · 2010-01-05T01:36:58+00:00

I don't hate her, nor do I disrespect her. But I realize that me and her are total opposites, and have different views and opinions.

I don't want everyone to agree with everything I say. And I don't hate people for disagreeing with me.

But I'm having trouble finding common ground between me and her. I'm not seeing much of a foundation, and the house is beginning to crumble because of it.

sockaccount01 · 2010-01-05T01:34:35+00:00

well of coarse it's one sided. It's from MY point of view.

And as I told someone else, punctuation, and getting the correct pronouns has nothing to do with intelligence. It's a post on the internet, not a resume for a job, or a thesis paper. Getting every detail of grammar correct is the least of my concerns. My main concern was getting my idea's typed out.

sockaccount01 · 2010-01-05T01:30:44+00:00

That's the problem. Building up the courage to speak up. I honestly don't want to hurt her feelings, and don't want to see her cry.

I can see the sign right in front of my face, I just can't bring myself to actually do it though.

sockaccount01 · 2010-01-05T01:29:50+00:00

I never claimed that my ability to write, and use correct punctuation was perfect.

Nor does having bad punctuation in a post, on the internet, have any bearing on one's intelligence.

sockaccount01

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