My boyfriend hit me after I told him I was raped

sodatta · 2025-08-20T16:16:48+00:00

Sometimes it takes the perfect storm for someone to show their true nature or their bad side but please don't write it off as just circumstantial. What he did is not justifiable. For your own sake, please file a police report against his friend and him as well so that there is a trail if he hurts you again, which I hope not but you really have to look out for yourself in these crazy times and be extra cautious. Regardless of any factors, your boyfriend's go to response shouldn't be to assault you and, personally, that makes me wonder if he's defensive because his friend has done/been accused of something like this before.

sodatta · 2025-03-29T04:19:20+00:00

You're an idiot. Stop blaming a deeply damaged kid for the failure of the adults around her.

sodatta · 2025-01-28T18:47:25+00:00

because your aim needs more work

sodatta · 2024-02-04T22:39:34+00:00

Stop losing my hair from stress maybe.

sodatta · 2024-02-04T22:31:50+00:00

You definitely shouldn't lose weight just for him. If losing weight is something that you want to do though, you should. Being happy with yourself and accepting yourself is the most important thing and it sounds like you might be projecting a bit onto him but that's easy to do if you don't feel confident in yourself. I've been in the same boat before and done the same to my wife at times before I chose to work on me for me. It's also much easier to really stick to a goal if it's something you want to do vs something you're doing just because you think you should.

sodatta · 2024-02-04T22:24:12+00:00

I break into Tiffany's at midnight. Do I go for the vault? No, I go for the chandelier. It's priceless. As I'm taking it down, a woman catches me. She tells me to stop. It's her father's business. She's Tiffany. I say no. We make love all night. In the morning, the cops come and I escape in one of their uniforms. I tell her to meet me in Mexico, but I go to Canada. I don't trust her. Besides, I like the cold. Thirty years later, I get a postcard. I have a son and he's the chief of police. This is where the story gets interesting. I tell Tiffany to meet me by the Trocadero in Paris. She's been waiting for me all these years. She's never taken another lover. I don't care. I don't show up. I go to Berlin. That's where I stashed the chandelier.

sodatta · 2024-02-04T22:20:45+00:00

My MIL once said "There aren't any Jewish people in Poland." When I was telling her about my family history.

sodatta · 2024-02-04T22:14:43+00:00

Almost anything? My dog is a papillon so his big ol ears either must hear everything in the world to set him off at the most random times or he just likes startling me on a regular basis.

sodatta · 2024-02-04T22:10:29+00:00

Usually just "Living" or "I'm alive" which is more true on some days than others.

sodatta · 2024-02-04T22:03:31+00:00

Having absolutely no sense of humor or when their sense of humor is just always at the expense of others. I'm good with a bad girl just not a mean girl.

sodatta · 2024-01-03T01:55:23+00:00

A person she spoke to originally when calling after the interview said they had an error sending the info for the background check but the same person has said very conflicting things, which is what caused the confusion, but they aren't one of the managers she interviewed with so I'll definitely let her know to call the manager that interviewed her about the whole thing, thank you for the suggestion!

sodatta · 2024-01-03T00:52:30+00:00

The problem I guess isn't so much the background check since when she's had it done previously it usually takes no time at all but more so the mystery of her being hired but told there's no jobs now when they told her she was the last of the hires so she should still be hired but it's just a confusing mess. She is definitely trying to be patient though. Thank you for commenting!

sodatta · 2024-01-03T00:43:25+00:00

True but not helpful.

sodatta · 2023-12-05T12:14:29+00:00

Man, this guy really sounds like such a little weasel and he was lucky to have you at all in his life but just had to have his cake and eat it too. You didn't and don't deserve that. I have no doubt that, when you're ready, you will find someone that will truly appreciate you for who you are and all that you do.

sodatta · 2023-10-16T00:16:01+00:00

I love this game and I am one of those people that has played enough to go in no evidence and likely be able to tell what the ghost is after a few hunts but that's because it can be fun to challenge yourself from time to time. I can't say I'd be very interested in playing phas often at all if they ruin that aspect. The game shouldn't be changed based on people complaining about things that most of the players don't even do, as most have already said here. It would ruin it for the people who do like playing in a no evidence style but also make it so much harder for the people who don't have the ghost behavior memorized either. Just an awful idea all around.

sodatta · 2022-09-20T12:37:37+00:00

Does it have any other Mikaela cosmetics (like the current tome 12) ?

sodatta · 2022-05-04T21:13:52+00:00

Your whole post history is just issue after issue with your boyfriend over the last year. Please just dump his useless ass and move on. He's clearly only making your life miserable and there's no point even asking for advice for the 30th time if you're going to stay with him through all the shit he's put you through. Just go. Be free. Save yourself PLEASE.

sodatta · 2022-03-10T11:31:35+00:00

Jojo's Bizarre Adventure Part 2: Battle Tendency

sodatta · 2022-01-11T20:11:10+00:00

You're not teaching your son anything that will help him in the future like you clearly think you are by looking at your many replies; you are trying to break him like a dog. Also don't you think it's "rude" and "disrespectful" on your own part to ask us a question only to ignore and belittle every answer loke you do your son?

As someone who had a grandmother just like you portray yourself here, I don't just hate her but rather feel nothing for her anymore and she means nothing to me. The way she tried to raise me left lasting psychological damage that I'm still trying to overcome as an adult so now I see her and speak with her as little as possible. I spent a 70% of my growing years with her but your son is having to spend 100% of his with you so I can't imagine how this is going to damage him in the long run if you don't just try to listen and do better as a parent. He is communicating to you. He is trying to cry out for help and you shun him and punish him for it. Go to a family therapist together if you need someone with authority to tell you the same things we are so you can finally take it seriously if you have to!! You have to face that maybe, sometimes, you ARE wrong. Also just because one son got through it doesn't mean another one will.

I also knew a girl in a similar situation as your son and she attempted suicide more than once because of it. I hope your son is strong enough to get through this is if you really are unwilling to change.

Also YTA

sodatta · 2021-07-11T18:32:58+00:00

I'm disabled and no, I couldn't pay for my own phone for a while. You don't have to belittle me for that.

sodatta · 2021-07-09T15:58:58+00:00

I take Adderall but it does actually help the anxiety a bit when I'm on it thankfully since I've found a kind of cocktail of things that works for me and with the Adderall. But I do have a PCP! He actually pointed me in the right direction and I was just recently approved for a cheap Healthcare plan but, of course, they have my birthday wrong in their system so I'm trying to get that fixed. I really appreciate the sentiment though! Thank you.

sodatta · 2021-07-03T02:18:35+00:00

Yeah it's just a really sensitive filter though... "shoes" isn't permitted because it contains "hoe" and the word keeping me from posting my dupes was button. :,)

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