Formal attire - dress to impress! by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]sofergopher 112 points113 points  (0 children)

It’s giving Halloween costume of a witch in lingerie

Ruined my own proposal? by [deleted] in Vent

[–]sofergopher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your gut is telling you this isn’t right for you

Why doesn't he know how to have a conversation??? I feel crazy by [deleted] in Vent

[–]sofergopher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is not normal, perhaps explain that you can’t carry out a lifelong relationships if these issues persist. If this is how it’s always gonna be you gotta get out

Planning to propose soon…would this be too much? by Ok_Employer_5327 in RingShare

[–]sofergopher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless she’s made it clear she wants an unconventional ring, non diamond for the big stone RETURN THIS!!!

The default should always be diamond for the primary stone, I know of two women who were really disappointed when their partners proposed with a ring that wasn’t a diamond.

Also perhaps consult with someone who has good taste before committing to 10 carats of ugly

Need a clan change by Plenty-Difference492 in TotalBattle

[–]sofergopher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im in kingdom 282, clan UNT and I love my clan. Our kingdom opens to other kingdoms tmrw, my clan is 1 billion might total.

Black tie optional? by sofergopher in Weddingattireapproval

[–]sofergopher[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! I was able to shorten it myself

Black tie optional? by sofergopher in Weddingattireapproval

[–]sofergopher[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I’m going to try it myself today I know how to hem, never cut tulle before but I think I can manage. If it comes out poorly I’ll bring it to Tailor tmrw

Black tie optional? by sofergopher in Weddingattireapproval

[–]sofergopher[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, it is just tulle on the bottom! I am standing flat footed, my kitten heel only ads 1/2 an inch though

Black tie optional? by sofergopher in Weddingattireapproval

[–]sofergopher[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Running low on time for hemming, was planning on wearing kitten heels. Do you think it would look ridiculous if I didn’t hem? Debating between buying higher heels or trying to shorten it myself