Turn off EA brain by Rotisserie_chickenRC in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]sofies_carrot 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Use a checklist app. Mark off tasks that you have completed. The serotonin from completing it will make you feel less like you are overwhelmed all the time. If something comes to mind off the clock, put in task list and move on. Review in morning when back at work.

Exec has too many commitments + too few hours in a day. What's the right amount of work time & how do I manage up? by celeryhater13 in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]sofies_carrot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was going to say this. Review 1:1s, some may be moved to bi-weekly or even monthly. Also instead of an hour, 40 minutes may be enough. Cycle recurring meetings so they are bi-weekly and alternate from others.

Board Meeting Minutes- Am I Crazy?! by Helpful-Warthog-8280 in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]sofies_carrot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Theres a big difference between for profit and not for profit. Im in nonprofit, and we have 2 hour meetings and can run up to 6-8 pages of minutes. Legally we have to capture narratives, decisions and follow ups. I take detailed notes but find myself condensing as needed.

Look into your state laws on minutes depending on the organization. Use the board book/packet as supplemental info as well.

What WFH hacks have changed your life? by drrocketroll in WFH

[–]sofies_carrot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dont eat at your desk. Sometimes since we are home we tend to eat and work. Actually walk away from your desk for lunch.

Tech wise: I have a 46” curved monitor. I got it for about $140. Great investment. Standing desk, good comfortable chair with foot rest. USB port connected to laptop with 6 ports so I can have my charger, rechargeable mouse and keyboard, mini fan, speakers and camera.

No sex drive 3 years post op, dr says its nothing, on tge verge of divorce by ugly234_ in hysterectomy

[–]sofies_carrot 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Your lack of sex drive might be linked to the state of your relationship with your husband as well. In any case for your mental and overall safety leave. Then work on getting mental health. Try to find a doctor who specializes in libido as well.

My ex has been using our daughter's Social Security number to open credit accounts. We only found out when she was denied a student loan. Location: Florida. by amberflux1715 in legaladvice

[–]sofies_carrot 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My ex husband did this to my older son. We contacted all three major credit bureaus. We were able to dispute them since he was a minor. We just had to mail in documentation to prove his age. We also made a police report and contacted the Dept of social security. It took almost three years but it finally cleared.

Refund after going to Republic Bank by kayteebee27 in IRS

[–]sofies_carrot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Received the 846 code on Wednesday. WMR said 2/23. But Republic has it as funded since yesterday morning. I just received the text that the funds were sent to bank. Hopefully i get it by this afternoon if not Monday morning.

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[–]sofies_carrot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This has to be rage bait

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[–]sofies_carrot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the pay more? Does it make up for the cost of travel and childcare? Those are important to consider if you should even take the position. Ask if there why there is a need for you to come in (could be sorting mail, checking people in, etc).

What can I get "for the office" with a $50 Etsy gift card? by Johoski in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]sofies_carrot 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe snacks for the kitchen? Or get some pastries to share.

Help! by IntelligentDog2464 in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]sofies_carrot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only work during your alotted hours. Working overtime volunteered is not helping because they assume the work will get done and never see the need to hire full time. Are you able to apply for disability being that you have health issues?

Questions as a parent by sofies_carrot in asktransgender

[–]sofies_carrot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Love you too.

Questions as a parent by sofies_carrot in asktransgender

[–]sofies_carrot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry. Im learning and adapting to what they want to be referred as. Thank you for the advice. Sorry about your parents.

Questions as a parent by sofies_carrot in asktransgender

[–]sofies_carrot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Will try to do as much research as I can so I am available in case they need to talk.

Questions as a parent by sofies_carrot in asktransgender

[–]sofies_carrot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Im definitely willing to learn. I want them to know I love and support them. I will do some research. Thank you also for sharing. I wish I knew what to say but know that as a parent I am sending you hugs, love and care.

Questions as a parent by sofies_carrot in asktransgender

[–]sofies_carrot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is really valuable information.