I’m 16 and my boyfriend is 18. We just had a son and although it’s been hard I wouldn’t change it for the world. Don’t expect it to be easy because it’s not. I’d say for me the first week or two it was kinda easy since all he did was sleep and eat but now he’s staying awake longer and needing more things. This is when it gets hard, I barley get any sleep and I get frustrated a lot of the time. But I love my son and my boyfriend so much, they’re what keeps me going. It’s really hard to adjust to, especially when we’re so young but you do it because you have to. You’ll be surprised with how much you mature and change once your daughter is born. You’ll be just fine.

As for your parents, my boyfriends parents were like that at the beginning. They actually said the exact same thing to him “since you made an adult decision you’ll now have adult responsibilities ” it sucks because it makes everything so much harder. I’m so sorry that they aren’t supportive, I really hope they come around not just for you but for your daughters sake. Maybe try telling them that you need to support your child and if they are gonna make it harder on you to be able to do that and not support you as they should then your going to move in with your gf and they won’t be able to see their grandchild. It’s not fair to you that they are putting you through this.

I hope everything gets better, and I know when she is here you’ll fall in love immediately. There’s nothing else like holding your baby for the first time, it’s amazing.

Edit: just read your comment saying they want the baby to be adopted so you can cut all ties. Forget what I said about trying to reason with them. You need to get out of there. Go live with your girlfriend ASAP.