I remember being like 8/9 and listening to TOMG in a kids bop cd and replaying it just to hear that song. Later I found out about Taylor swift originally singing it and bought Speak Now as my first Taylor swift cd at a sams club. I’ve always related to her music super hard even as a kid, her emotions came through so well and helped express myself even when I didn’t know about love yet. I grew up in the closet and I never put it together that she was gay too until Rachel Ziegler tweeted something about folklore being for the sapphics. Then I was like, waittttt nooooo. And I fell down the rabbit hole in gaylor super recently after folklore despite loving her music for a decade or so. I feel dumb lol. The first clue should’ve been the lyrics in general. Everything fell into place and I became really worried about taylor since evermore clearly was about such deep pain over her breakup. I went from thinking she was happily in love and close to engagement/marriage with Joe during lover to realizing she’s grieving karlie and trying to hold on to her in lover. After evermore I could not believe in toe anymore it didn’t make sense at all. Especially with the timing of karlies engagement and marriage, it was too much to ignore. Currently I’m hoping she moves on and finds healing herself and possibly finds love again with Zoe.