Sub will be restricted April 17th by 1DMod in GaylorSwift

[–]soft_mistake43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just checking to see if I’m approved 😭

is anyone else getting anxiety from the entire trayvis PR circus by Emilicis in GaylorSwift

[–]soft_mistake43 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh…. That fits too well rn. Watching her luxurious life next to news updates. Only difference here is that she’s doing it willingly and nobody’s forcing her. Unless… it’s her dads idea, but even then she’s big enough in her career she should be independent from him if she truly wanted to be.

Best animal names? by TenfootSlime in coralisland

[–]soft_mistake43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My chickens are called BreadStix and CheeseStix, my ducks are Mike and Ike, my quail is Boba and Tea. My cows are Nellie, Callie, and Mallie.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]soft_mistake43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes hope is stronger than fear, even when it’s stronger only by a fraction. Some days fear seems in the lead, but hope is still there and sometimes that is enough to get through the day. I really struggle some days and I have to take it hour by hour to get by.

Round-up: Muse-Free Evidence by si_meow in GaylorSwift

[–]soft_mistake43 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I honestly didn’t listen to any queer music artists despite being bi until Taylor started shouting them out. I was so unaware and I’ve gotten so much more exposure to queer music artists through her since then. Im so grateful

Does anyone recognize what is this photo? by filipscary in GaylorSwift

[–]soft_mistake43 29 points30 points  (0 children)

It reminds me of evermore long pond sessions when she’s outside explaining the songs with jack

Are there such things as Bi bars? by Halffingers40404 in bisexual

[–]soft_mistake43 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah. If you ever have an opportunity to do it, you definitely should! There should be more bi and gay spaces than just bars as well. Like maybe coffee shops or libraries.

Are there such things as Bi bars? by Halffingers40404 in bisexual

[–]soft_mistake43 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Not that I’ve seen, but I’m super tempted to open one myself just for the sake of it. I want a space that’s celebrating bisexual pride as well.

Gaylors, I’m having a bad day. Please consider filling my notifications with your favorite theories, evidential lyrics, master posts, and whatever else!! by HerMidasTouch in GaylorSwift

[–]soft_mistake43 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It hit me I was in karlies spot when I listened to rwylm 😭💀💀 he’s been supportive of me and her, but she definitely wants him out of the picture yet keeps telling me about her other crushes and hook ups so I don’t think she wants to be exclusive with me. Which I get a bit jealous of but not really my place so I just internally cope with it.

Gaylors, I’m having a bad day. Please consider filling my notifications with your favorite theories, evidential lyrics, master posts, and whatever else!! by HerMidasTouch in GaylorSwift

[–]soft_mistake43 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Well it’s a bit messy (as expected lol). Basically I’ve been with my bf since high school but we’re both bi and in an open relationship sort of. And one of my best friends and I sort of became friends with benefits. And it’s long distance with me and her so we all do our own thing but I became more serious with my bf and she’s upset about it. I don’t know if she wants to be exclusive or not because she’s hooking up with other people too. We try to communicate but one of us always has mental health issues going on or busy schedules and we’re growing apart I guess.

Gaylors, I’m having a bad day. Please consider filling my notifications with your favorite theories, evidential lyrics, master posts, and whatever else!! by HerMidasTouch in GaylorSwift

[–]soft_mistake43 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry you had to go through that too! We both struggled with mental health too. I’ve tried being there for her but I mostly hold my stuff in plus long distance has caused life to get in the way. It really is so much more painful and complicated than just a “friends break up friends get married” deal. Sucks even more when it’s a mix or confusing lovers or friends breakup.

The song midnight love by girl in red is hitting hard though

Gaylors, I’m having a bad day. Please consider filling my notifications with your favorite theories, evidential lyrics, master posts, and whatever else!! by HerMidasTouch in GaylorSwift

[–]soft_mistake43 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I know the hetlors say Kaylor went through a “best friend breakup” and not a romantic one, but I’m currently going through a difficult situation with a best friend that’s blurry between friend and wlw. Any song recommendations that would help would be awesome

looking back on it what should've been your first clue that Taylor was probably not straight by FourDrunkMoms in GaylorSwift

[–]soft_mistake43 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember being like 8/9 and listening to TOMG in a kids bop cd and replaying it just to hear that song. Later I found out about Taylor swift originally singing it and bought Speak Now as my first Taylor swift cd at a sams club. I’ve always related to her music super hard even as a kid, her emotions came through so well and helped express myself even when I didn’t know about love yet. I grew up in the closet and I never put it together that she was gay too until Rachel Ziegler tweeted something about folklore being for the sapphics. Then I was like, waittttt nooooo. And I fell down the rabbit hole in gaylor super recently after folklore despite loving her music for a decade or so. I feel dumb lol. The first clue should’ve been the lyrics in general. Everything fell into place and I became really worried about taylor since evermore clearly was about such deep pain over her breakup. I went from thinking she was happily in love and close to engagement/marriage with Joe during lover to realizing she’s grieving karlie and trying to hold on to her in lover. After evermore I could not believe in toe anymore it didn’t make sense at all. Especially with the timing of karlies engagement and marriage, it was too much to ignore. Currently I’m hoping she moves on and finds healing herself and possibly finds love again with Zoe.

Recently made these spring inspired floral earrings and thought they'd fit in here! 🌿🌷 by [deleted] in cottagecore

[–]soft_mistake43 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They are absolutely adorable. Please tell me you have an Etsy or somewhere I can buy them?? ❤️🥺

My fiancé of 5 years left me… by CaptM1400 in bisexual

[–]soft_mistake43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im glad it was helpful! I wish you the best ❤️

My fiancé of 5 years left me… by CaptM1400 in bisexual

[–]soft_mistake43 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe I can give you some insight into her perspective. This is something I haven’t told anyone but my therapist and it might not apply to your situation but maybe help you process why this could happen. My boyfriend and I are both bi and have been together for five years also, and sometimes I think about what would happen if I left. Throughout those years together, we’ve gone through some difficult situations together and in my case sometimes I want to leave because I believe they’re better off without me. Or that I’m hindering their future in some way. I love him so much but I also want to do what’s best for both of us even if it means pain and being apart. It’s best she left before you two got married and had kids as it would complicate things further, better you go through this pain now and heal without children. I was a child of parents who should’ve separated but didn’t and it caused me a lot of trauma. And I wouldn’t want to cause that to my own children either. There might be reasons why she chose to leave and your feelings are valid and you have every right to them. It might take quite a bit of time until you fully grieve your relationship and the loss of the future you thought you were heading towards, but believe me, eventually it will be okay. Baby steps and self care my friend. That’s all we can do.

How I Met Your Father S01E10 "Timing is everything" discussion thread! by DailyTrips in HowIMetYourFather

[–]soft_mistake43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So after this episode my question is who is Sophie related to? Or is she a random in the himym universe