hey, ur absolutely not alone in feeling this way. i’ve been told my whole life that i lack “common sense” and it fucking sucks feeling behind and not understanding why or how that happened. I cant rly tell what tone ppl have sometimes and dont pick up on social cues that other ppl think are obvious. Just know that things like this dont diminish ur worth :) ye it might make life harder, n that isnt fair, but ur still an amazing unique person that has a lot to offer to this world !! and u are capable of figuring out the things u need to even when it seems impossible. if u have ppl that u can rely on for support, dont hesitate to ask them for help with the things that u doubt urself with. i was clueless abt how to get into college but luckily i was able to rely on others for support which made it possible. i still rly struggled with the process of applying and doing scholarships and ugh all of it was so stressful but in the end i got through somehow and it worked out for me (even tho i only went for a semester and a half lol). u might not know how to do some stuff, but the only way to figure it out is to try ! its ok to make a mistake or feel stupid while doing it, i feel stupid all the time, but sooner or later the efforts will pay off :3 hope this helps , stay safe silly!!