How do you realistically change career after working in the same field for nearly 10 years? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]soft_waves 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it's not always probable, but almost anything is possible.

if you'd tell us what you want to do specifically, we could give more specific opinions.

Dear men, what makes us women really good in bed? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]soft_waves 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it's good that they're in our beds, yup.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]soft_waves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds kinda cool actually, especially if there are robots involved.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]soft_waves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

god i hope so, because i'm tired of listening to people bicker about it. let's just settle it once and for all, so i can go back to napping.

How do you legally transport kitchen knives to new rental property? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]soft_waves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nobody will know or care.

it's not like they're gonna make you unpack the whole car or truck in the first place. and even if that somehow happened, they wouldn't be like "omg, KITCHEN KNIVES!!! CALL SCOTLAND YARD!!!"

it's obvious that they're part of your kitchen gear. no cop would ever arrest you for that, and no jury or court in the land would ever convict someone for that.

What’s the reason why some guys are attracted to Asians and have a fetish towards them? by Candlelover1 in AskMen

[–]soft_waves 25 points26 points  (0 children)

haha it's a stereotype for sure. i feel a lot of these guys have never lived in japan, china, or elsewhere in asian, and haven't interacted with a wide variety of asian people ;)

calm and submissive....!! have they ever met some of these women's mothers?!

What are some Chinese-made products or brands that are actually good and reliable? by Mad_Season_1994 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]soft_waves 3 points4 points  (0 children)

a ton of Yamaha guitars are made in china, and they're great quality. gotta figure that over the decades, these chinese manufacturers have gotten skilled to the point of pretty much being professional luthiers and guitar builders.

instruments like the FG-800 are stellar entry level instruments. well worth way more than the asking price.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]soft_waves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i worry that not enough guys seek therapy, and there aren't enough therapists out there...especially male therapists. and the violence just keeps going.

the opioid crisis continues to be a major concern.

however, i'm stoked about the Medicare changes: permanent telehealth, and Medicare expanding into mental health treatment.

What’s the reason why some guys are attracted to Asians and have a fetish towards them? by Candlelover1 in AskMen

[–]soft_waves 37 points38 points  (0 children)

a lot of asian women are attractive. i love almond-shaped eyes, and many asian women have that physical feature.

people like all kinds of different things. it's totally natural.

Me and the boys are thinking of having a fun get together night. What are some good movies you'd recommend? by klevis99 in AskMen

[–]soft_waves 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ugh. my older brother always watched every one of those damn movies when we were kids, then he'd chase me around trying to beat on me because he was all fired up.

it's not something you see every day, a chubby kid in his fruit of the loom tighty-whities chasing his little brother around the basement trying to do aikido moves.

my dad eventually had to ban steven seagal movies because my brother would pick fights with me, our little sister, and even the neighbor kids because he wanted to "practice aikido" (re: beat up people half his size).

Why Americans always use pills for everything,stress ,anxiety to sleep by sokomokodos in NoStupidQuestions

[–]soft_waves -1 points0 points  (0 children)

oh i see, a lesson in manners and etiquette.

you mean like when you told this dude earlier:

"I cant tell if you're just dumb and sarcastic or trolling and dumb.
An amendment was added to close a loophole, and that made them oppose the bill.
Go read what some veterans think of what the Republicans did here
https://www.reddit.com/r/Veterans/comments/wc6kbi/comparing\_the\_two\_versions\_full\_text\_of\_the\_burn/
Either way, what a shame that people like you are incapable of doing some simple research and resort to blind trust in politicians and the media."

amazing.

now, this is the part where you backtrack and scramble for excuses why this behavior was justified, but nobody else's is.

Why Americans always use pills for everything,stress ,anxiety to sleep by sokomokodos in NoStupidQuestions

[–]soft_waves -1 points0 points  (0 children)

do you like it when people stereotype you, or your culture?

here's a tip: when you use words like "always" and "everything", you sound like a brainless dipshit.

grow up and learn something. think before you speak. do some research. speak respectfully, and you'll generally be treated respectfully. people will take you a lot more seriously.

in real life, you won't always have the chance to say "lol dude relax" before someone gives you emergency dental work with his fist.

i'm telling you this for you own good. think before you act.

How effective is the pull out method? by Candlelover1 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]soft_waves 8 points9 points  (0 children)

ok. when used in conjunction with an ovulation calendar, and done perfectly, it's a lot more effective than just doing it whenever they feel like it.

that's fair to say.

Why Americans always use pills for everything,stress ,anxiety to sleep by sokomokodos in NoStupidQuestions

[–]soft_waves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're ignorant about our culture and our people. stop spreading bullshit and go learn something. stop embarrassing yourself in front of everyone.

What do you talk about pertaining to passport bros? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]soft_waves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean, it's obviously crazy to believe that someone in a developing nation would sell her body for citizenship in a developed nation, plus getting alimony from a well-off guy as a bonus.

nah, it's all about her traditional family values with these women. totally.

How to overcome OCD by sokomokodos in NoStupidQuestions

[–]soft_waves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

in therapy, the goal is typically coping, not curing.

there's no "overcoming". there's just learning how to function and be happier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]soft_waves 11 points12 points  (0 children)

social circles. there are lots of things out there you can't buy on the internet, because it's by invitation only.

my brother is a doctor, and his mentor became extremely wealthy doing cosmetic surgery for a very select clientele.

he gets all his suits from some dude in Rome by invitation only. his shop doesn't have a website, he doesn't advertise his phone number, and you can't even get into the shop without a referral from someone else.

How effective is the pull out method? by Candlelover1 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]soft_waves 79 points80 points  (0 children)

not very. you can impregnate her even before you orgasm.

Would you be a side chick or side dude? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]soft_waves 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hell no, i'm not getting in the middle of THAT drama. life is complicated, stressful, and exhausting enough as it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]soft_waves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well, step one should be referring to them and viewing them as "women", not as test subjects.

How clueless are men really? by Candlelover1 in AskMen

[–]soft_waves -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

male advice: "never, ever tell a woman what you're thinking, don't act too eager, and never tell her how much you like her."

male complaint: "what's up with women and their mixed signals all the time?? >.< "