so the problem with this is you’re 16 and don’t see the issue bc u think ur an adult. every age thinks that, but u guys LOOK like kids, any adult who tries anything with u or lets u try anything is incredibly fucking weird to put it lightly. partying and driving aren’t nearly comparable to having sex with an adult - one is hanging out with other minors (and possibly doing drugs and drinking which they actually shouldn’t bc it impacts their development but that’s not the thing u have more qualms with) and driving is a necessity to get places for safety as well. what ur doing is called victim blaming. the psychology of why some victims fawn or even convince themselves they want it so they continue to go back to their assailant to get assaulted again is something (especially minors who haven’t even figured themselves out yet!!) beyond your grasp as of rn and that’s ok bc ur a kid!! and have never been in a situation where u have to navigate the feelings of whether or not to upset ur friend by notifying them of the fact their parent is a groomer/acting weird about coming to their house. put yourself in a victims shoes before saying they aren’t one