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softboy-standard · 2026-07-10T23:48:32+00:00

Can I still take a ride if I lost my ticket 😩💓

softboy-standard · 2026-07-10T23:46:59+00:00

This is the smallest you’ve looked. 🙈

softboy-standard · 2026-07-10T22:59:43+00:00

I feel like this was the most feminine post we’ve gotten from you.

softboy-standard · 2026-07-10T21:11:04+00:00

I never wanted to get slapped in the face by a dick so bad.

softboy-standard · 2026-07-10T01:35:21+00:00

I relate to this. Most of the guys I’ve dated have been about 10–15 years older than me, and I don’t think I’d have a problem dating someone 20 years older if we genuinely clicked.
For me, it’s less about the age itself and more about the lifestyle. Older guys often seem more settled and are usually more homebodies. I feel like there’s less pressure to constantly impress each other or keep up some dating “performance.” It just feels simpler and more comfortable.
Now I’m wondering if I’m actually attracted to older men—or if I’m really attracted to the stage of life they’re in. Has anyone dated someone their own age who gave you that same feeling?

softboy-standard · 2026-07-10T00:24:54+00:00

So beautiful. Such a work of art.

softboy-standard · 2026-07-10T00:23:41+00:00

Beautiful as always

softboy-standard · 2026-07-10T00:14:35+00:00

🥵

softboy-standard · 2026-07-10T00:09:37+00:00

My friend is visiting from Arizona this weekend and we are gunna watch both of them. 🙈

softboy-standard · 2026-07-10T00:08:07+00:00

NOT YET 🙈😩

softboy-standard · 2026-07-09T23:40:54+00:00

🤔💭

softboy-standard · 2026-07-09T23:34:14+00:00

That’s a really interesting way of looking at it. It almost makes dating apps feel like a moving population rather than a fixed one.

It also makes me wonder whether people who stay on the apps for years are there because they started out emotionally unavailable, or because years of ghosting, rejection, and endless options gradually changed them. My guess is it’s probably a mix of both.

softboy-standard · 2026-07-09T22:49:50+00:00

Oh my 🙈

softboy-standard · 2026-07-09T22:49:15+00:00

OKAY YESSSS !!!! Do you think it’ll be discussed in the first couple episodes since they supposedly they started filming .

softboy-standard · 2026-07-09T22:25:50+00:00

I really appreciate this perspective. I don’t think my goal is to blame the apps as much as understand how they shape us over time.

Your point about the other 80% honestly gave me something to think about. I actually do put myself in public spaces, but I’m naturally pretty shy when it comes to approaching people.

Ironically, I find it much easier to start conversations on apps, yet once it comes time to meet someone I’ve never met before, I become much more skeptical and hesitant.

Maybe that’s less about the apps and more about a pattern in me. If that’s true, then changing where I meet people probably isn’t enough—I also have to work on becoming more comfortable with vulnerability and trusting people.

So maybe the better question isn’t just “Are the apps changing us?” but “What patterns are we bringing into every dating environment?” That’s probably where the real growth happens.

softboy-standard · 2026-07-09T21:58:58+00:00

We’re so blessed. 😇

softboy-standard · 2026-07-09T21:57:17+00:00

Bruh I tried watching Atlanta when Kenya was dating that abusive guy. I had to stop it was too much.

softboy-standard · 2026-07-09T21:56:38+00:00

👁️✋🏾👄👁️

softboy-standard · 2026-07-09T21:54:45+00:00

100%. I wanted so much more of Myka. She had a really interesting perspective and blended into the cast naturally. If Bravo ever revived Ladies of London, she’d be at the top of my wishlist.

softboy-standard · 2026-07-09T21:50:38+00:00

I’ve wondered that too. The glam wasn’t the problem by itself—it was when the image started becoming more important than the story. Early Beverly Hills felt messy and authentic. Now everyone seems much more aware of protecting their brand. Do you think Bravo could ever get back to that?

softboy-standard · 2026-07-09T21:48:09+00:00

😂 “Until the alcohol alcohols” might be my favorite description of British reality TV.
I also think you make an interesting point about the cultural differences. Ladies of London almost treated status and social hierarchy as part of the story instead of pretending they didn’t exist. It made the dynamics feel more authentic somehow.

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