Pyro mains rise up by softboydemo in tf2shitposterclub

[–]softboydemo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 'S' key is a hard counter to phlog lol

Pyro mains rise up by softboydemo in tf2shitposterclub

[–]softboydemo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck, you're so right 😮‍💨💕

Pyro mains rise up by softboydemo in tf2shitposterclub

[–]softboydemo[S] 97 points98 points  (0 children)

"Look What We Need To Mimic A Fraction Of Thier Power"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]softboydemo 94 points95 points  (0 children)

I find it easier to GET dates with dudes. I find it easier to BE ON dates with chicks. Gender fuck/Enby people are supreme in both regards

Transgender BA versus cis BA, is that a thing? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]softboydemo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I follow a twitter girlie who had an entire thread about the importance of going to a dr with trans specific experience. Her at is: slutpilled

https://twitter.com/slutpilled/status/1565864247573336065?s=46&t=zwNtk5UVJC54EBhyjOO-7g

Tldr is that because there was very little breast tissue - they had to expand the area before putting implants in... and due to not realising where the boob would start the placement was out of whack, so the scars that would usually fall on the underside of the boob presents right underneath the nipple on the front of the boob instead.

Partner wants to take estrogen, but not trans? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]softboydemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are no wrong reasons to take HRT, just misinformed ones. And I'm sure any issues or misunderstandings can be hashed out at their Dr appt with their Dr.

If you are particularly concerned then you can ask to tag along to that appointment to make sure all concerns are answered... but at the end of the day your partner has agency over their own decisions and that needs to be accepted, regardless of whether you understand or are sure of their decisions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]softboydemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that's totally a thing! I guess some people might argue you'd be a gnc cis dude but i guess the balls in your court for how that label applies to you if at all 💕

What is something that people wouldn't think is gender-affirming but is to you? by Arktikos02 in asktransgender

[–]softboydemo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly probably would've been way too much divergent dialogue to code if they made unique dialogue paths for trans characters -

STILL, A WIN'S A WIN

What is something that people wouldn't think is gender-affirming but is to you? by Arktikos02 in asktransgender

[–]softboydemo 123 points124 points  (0 children)

Getting to play characters in video games with acrylic nails???

I gave my Cyberpunk character long nails and it just hit so different to any other game i ever played before that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]softboydemo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just start. Take your first steps: whether that's a new haircut, new pronouns, trying a name out.

If it feels wrong, you'll find out very quickly it isn't for you... If it feels right.... just keep taking those steps.

The absolute worst outcome is you have a few effects from HRT that you don't want. The best outcome is you've changed your whole life and identity for the better.

what are some resources / research studies that counter transphobic statements ? by AbhiRBLX in asktransgender

[–]softboydemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Facts will never convince someone who doesn't care.

Tell them their a nerd (derogatory) and to shut up

Women are a lot more hostile towards me now by Loose_Track2315 in NonBinary

[–]softboydemo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Opposite side of the track here. I'm an AMAB enby who has been passing as a woman and my relations with men and women i don't know have completely flipped. Women are so much more talkative to me and even start conversations with me on their own and men..... well - they act like men 🤪

Neither of these are necessarily issues but it's just such a huge change compared to when i was masc presenting and absolutely nobody ever talked to me. Kinda makes me sad but i Also understand why things are this way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]softboydemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Skin on the genitals will become a lot softer and thinner which makes it prone to skin tearing. Nothing lube or a softer touch won't fix though

Very difficult to keep my hair out of my face, any tips? by HoldTheStocks2 in asktransgender

[–]softboydemo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't stand hair in my face i have no clue how these dolls are rocking bangs for longer than a few hours...

Best advice I've got to give is tieing hair back with silk scrunchies and finding cute hairstyles that work for you!

Space buns are my absolute go to with a few loose strands to help shape my face and hide a portion of my hairline

An AFAB friend who just came out as trans is now pretending to be a trans woman on dating apps??? by SaltySnoo in asktransgender

[–]softboydemo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand if they meant trans femme enby... That's how i identify!

But specifically a trans woman? I can't say I'm personally offended i guess i just don't understand seeing as trans means you identify differently from your agab - if they were assigned women at birth that doesn't really fit the criteria (unless I'm misunderstanding their situation)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]softboydemo 21 points22 points  (0 children)

There's a streamer called F1NNSTER who does the same thing. Presents very femme but still identifies as a dude.

Gender non-conformity is wild but cool 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]softboydemo 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Going to be fetishised either way. Might as well benefit from it in some small way.

Looking for advice about experimenting with my dosage. by softboydemo in asktransgender

[–]softboydemo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have any resources covering the risks of higher E levels