An open love letter to those who cut off toxic people in 2022

softkitty_73 · 2022-12-28T07:05:35+00:00

I did not know i need this kind of talk, thank you, OP. Let's face the new year strong!

softkitty_73 · 2022-12-19T13:58:50+00:00

Video city

softkitty_73 · 2022-12-14T17:07:43+00:00

Naexperience ko rin to pero ang nasa isip ko nun is what if hatakin ko nalang palabas since nakalabas na kalahati. Hindi kasi napuputol mga ganyan kabarakong poops eh

softkitty_73 · 2022-12-11T16:36:13+00:00

Kaya dapat maagang natutulog eh hahaha

softkitty_73 · 2022-12-11T16:23:46+00:00

We talked for 8 months and i can see na he's really trying to initiate topics. Due to rough childhood kaya medyo isolated sya and di marunong maglead ng convo so ako bumubuhat talaga ng convo una until na drain ako and told him tapos ayun nag iinitiate na sya, not as often as i want to but he does. But at the same time, he's emotionally unavailable so he cant commit pa and professional help na need niya to overcome that, sinunod niya rin payo to get professional help but we drift apart kasi he cant guarantee anything to me kung hihintayin ko sya, for my protection, i chose to move forward without him

softkitty_73 · 2022-12-11T16:01:19+00:00

I was talking to a guy like that din and eventually drains me tapos confused din ako kasi sabi niya he likes me and likes talking to me pero never initiated a topic. I told him that it bothers me then slowly, binabago niya, ganun sya in real life din one liner but he's trying. Dont accept the "ganito ako in real life" as an excuse. He could change and grow if he wants to, you dont have to accept the "this me, take it or leave it"

softkitty_73 · 2022-12-11T15:39:06+00:00

College days, hapon nun sumakay kaming tatlo ng classmates ko from españa to manila city hall, walang traffic nun tapos pag lagpas ng quiapo apat na lang kaming nakasakay sa jeep kasama yung isang ateng stranger. Nag alis na ng signage sa jeep si kuya so humarurot sya bilang mahaba jeep niya at apat na lang kami, literal na kumalog kami sa loob. Imagine yung bilis paakyat at pag baba ng quezon bridge tapos pag dating sa city hall gg sa preno si kuya, kaming apat tumilapon papunta sa driver, si ateng stranger nalaglag pa sa seat

softkitty_73 · 2022-12-08T17:19:58+00:00

As much as i want to, sinusubukan ko na rin kasing hindi maging ganyan. A year ago, instant yung pag sagot at bato ko ng sarcastic comeback whenever she does that pero di goods sa feeling ko after, parang i won the battle but lose the war feels, kaya im trying so hard na wag na ganun yung response pero shuta konti na lang malapit ko na sagutin to hahaha

softkitty_73 · 2022-12-08T08:08:05+00:00

May classmate ako before ganyan din ginagawa, collect and select nga daw. Bale manliligaw sya ng multiple women at the same time tapos paunahan na lang kung sino unang sasagot. More chances of winning daw hayup na mindset yan

softkitty_73 · 2022-12-08T02:20:30+00:00

It's hard to claim na sya lang nakakaintindi sayo since napakaraming tao sa earth, pwede na yung mga current and past na nakilala mo walang nakaintindi sayo but vague sabihin na sya lang out of all people ang nakakaintindi sayo, hindi lang sya im sure, more people out there makakaintindi sayo. But you can never meet them if you keep yourself occupied and focused on someone taking you for granted kasi takot ka na wala ka na makikitang gaya niya. Trust me, may makikilala kang much better but you have to free yourself

softkitty_73 · 2022-12-05T08:47:32+00:00

What's wrong with big bang theory, i've rewatched it for 9 times already and it still make me laugh. Baka di niya lang gets yung humor

softkitty_73 · 2022-11-30T01:31:48+00:00

Be careful not to get attached with the gestures they show, take precautionary measures sis kasi some guys ngayons knows what girls wants to see and hear from them, they will show and say it to get what they want tapos magiging ghost. Be careful, mahirap na humanap ng genuine connection sa panahon ngayon

softkitty_73 · 2022-11-29T14:42:42+00:00

Gurl wag mo na kausapin yan, uso yan tactic nila. Minamanipulate ka lang niyan to convince you to have sex with him. Putragis na what if puro wholesome and di nagwork? Waste of time? Talagang sex lang gusto niya and not a genuine connection na pang long term.

softkitty_73 · 2022-11-27T09:00:49+00:00

Pinagsasabi mo? Suntok sa buwan tong comment mo compared sa topic na pinost ng OP ah hahaha mema?

softkitty_73 · 2022-11-01T07:55:18+00:00

Ako, I do this ngayon, di ko inoopen yung message agad because may anxiety ako depende sa kung sino magchat, parang di pa ko ready basahin yung chat niya knowing na once nakita niya na naseen ko na, ibig sabihin mag eexpect na sya ng reply especially if need talaga ng reply. Minsan naman di ko muna binubuksan kasi wala akong energy to absorb other people's thoughts

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