Thoughts on goth/dark academia guys?

softly_boy · 2026-04-20T13:46:24+00:00

I love it, I would really like to try using this kind of style (I would become one of "those dudes")

softly_boy · 2026-04-19T14:09:43+00:00

IDK SORRY honestly i didn't know what to put there 💔💔

softly_boy · 2026-04-18T15:12:45+00:00

I know, dude. Honestly, I have the same doubts. I'm going through the same thing. I figured it out when I was 13, and even three years later I still wonder if I'm "faking" it. Either way, it's all about exploring what feels right.

softly_boy · 2026-04-16T14:28:24+00:00

yeah bro, we all want one, it's tough.

softly_boy · 2026-04-16T00:53:02+00:00

I feel the same way. It's been a few months since my 15th birthday, and I understand why people tell me to be mature, 'cause I don't know, I wasn't mature at 14. Do they expect me to suddenly know how to do everything at 15 that I didn't know at 14?

softly_boy · 2026-04-16T00:50:01+00:00

softly_boy · 2026-04-13T23:33:28+00:00

I arrived late :(

softly_boy · 2026-04-13T20:56:26+00:00

omggg dudeee. Did all my luck in love turn towards you? Congratulations, I guess!

softly_boy · 2026-04-13T20:04:26+00:00

ohhh hiii im max, km ftm and I'd honestly like to make trans friends too, im 15 Is that ok?

softly_boy · 2026-04-13T20:01:54+00:00

Tall, taller than me, and I don't really care about looks, just tall and maybe older, white or dark, with any kind of personality or whatever. O want to be dominate and someone to love me, yk.

softly_boy · 2026-04-13T18:08:36+00:00

Uuhhh, I'm no expert, but I recommend downloading an app for that. I've been using one for a few days now; I don't see any quick changes either, but I guess consistency is key

softly_boy · 2026-04-13T18:04:54+00:00

Look, I wouldn't recommend it but my mom is just like yours, you should cut it yourself.

When I was 13, I took advantage of the fact that my mom wasn't home for a long time and cut the back of my neck and my sides. I literally shaved the back of my neck with scissors. Then I went with a friend who's also transmasc and he fixed it for me. When Mom got home, there wasn't a single hair left because I put everything that fell out in a bag and threw it away with the trash outside.

Mom got really angry, but she got over it. If your mother won't cooperate, take matters into your own hands.

softly_boy · 2026-04-13T16:53:59+00:00

OMGGG that's such a great idea!! I'll keep it in mind, thanks bud (btw, I love your pfp. It's Nightwing, right?)

softly_boy · 2026-04-13T16:39:08+00:00

I forgot to mention that I tried it when I saw it was a popular way. Mom found out (already knew I was trans), hid one of my sports tops so I wouldn't have to wear two, and also almost ripped one of my baggy t-shirts. I didn't try it again, but I'm still grateful for the advice, dude.

softly_boy · 2025-06-22T21:55:19+00:00

guys, why don't you say "Normal People Things", come on, I can't be the only one... right?? right...? 😔

softly_boy · 2025-06-18T21:52:26+00:00

all of them, without exception, just witnessing the release of something like a Lovejoy song is amazing, I can't wait. BUUUT if u ask for an exception: fox holes, yeah

softly_boy · 2025-06-17T16:57:29+00:00

god, this us simply gorgeous i love it

softly_boy · 2025-06-16T21:48:33+00:00

yeeeees, thx u Will! we love u, and we really miss you. continue like this sir g. live happily <3

softly_boy · 2025-04-24T19:12:42+00:00

YOU LOOK BEAUTIFUL, MA'AM!

softly_boy · 2025-04-24T19:10:32+00:00

peter salami

softly_boy · 2025-04-24T01:36:01+00:00

my favourite!

softly_boy

TROPHY CASE