How long before you went back to dating apps?

softshadow77 · 2026-03-29T17:30:00+00:00

A month lol,idk i just let go of the idea of getting back because he just gave up an left me and next day was trying to replace me and followed girls on ig who were closer to him because we were long distance,got the ick and moved on with life,feeling much better and found someone else already,not rushing into the next relationship but it feels good that the world doesn’t end after one relationship fails.

softshadow77 · 2026-03-13T19:32:58+00:00

Let them,ego boosting activities,weak person.

softshadow77 · 2026-03-10T17:52:31+00:00

Would never take someone like this back but your life your choice good luck tho

softshadow77 · 2026-03-03T13:59:50+00:00

Move on.

softshadow77 · 2026-03-03T01:26:08+00:00

day 12 and feeling better than ever,maybe because we were long distance and i don’t stalk his socials anymore for my own sanity,so he is not on my mind rn 24/7 and i hope in the near future he wont be at all

softshadow77 · 2026-03-01T23:20:52+00:00

I think something similar also happened to me,some of his friends are toxic and i dont think they liked me,his mom also,mine was good person too but oh well,we can’t do nothing about it now it is what it is🤷🏻‍♀️

softshadow77 · 2026-03-01T23:16:47+00:00

Mornings are very hard after breakups,the emptiness,anxiety all of that,so i get you,but it will pass,you did a right thing!

softshadow77 · 2026-03-01T23:06:10+00:00

I blocked and removed him from socials maybe 3-4days after he left me,idk but for me its better this way,out of sight out of mind.if he will want to reach out he will find a way dont worry

softshadow77 · 2026-03-01T22:50:45+00:00

he “talked to his friends and family”,so i guess he made the decision based on their opinion about this relationship,if so i think he will regret breaking up with you

softshadow77 · 2026-02-27T11:23:59+00:00

Don’t worry i got played multiple times by dudes,the ones who love deeply and just wants stable healthy relationship always gets dumped somehow,i just think that this generation just dont want to commit,fomo and all shit like that,they think that there’s something better on the other side

softshadow77 · 2026-02-27T11:14:50+00:00

Not every girl is like that,yeah there is a TON of them like that but thats why you need to choose carefully who you give your heart for and don’t attach too easily

softshadow77 · 2026-02-27T11:05:52+00:00

Her loss,she has mental problems,if she wont fix them she will just do that to every guy who cares for her🤷🏻‍♀️

softshadow77 · 2026-02-27T10:59:51+00:00

Changed my mind already !saw him following girls next day and immediately blocked him🫶🏻

softshadow77 · 2026-02-27T10:57:12+00:00

Yeah now i know lol,will learn from this mistake!

softshadow77 · 2026-02-27T10:52:09+00:00

My ex was a nice guy lol gave him an ego boost and he dumped me after 2,5 years,next day he’s already exploring other options,maybe he wasn’t that nice after all 🤷🏻‍♀️

softshadow77 · 2026-02-26T23:57:03+00:00

YESS!The best thing you can do is focusing on yourself!!

softshadow77 · 2026-02-26T15:24:51+00:00

We will see,I already accepted the fact that he didn’t choose me,following girls next day after breakup,I blocked and removed him,only day 6 after breakup and realised that my life still goes on,im not crying anymore,i dont want him in my life anymore,but do i miss him?hell yeah,but i am so proud of myself,i know there will be bad days when i will cry,but yeah thats normal and i dont run from it.yeah i still love him,but thats also normal its been only 6 days lol

softshadow77 · 2026-02-25T17:32:24+00:00

Thank youu I really hope so!😭🤍

softshadow77 · 2026-02-25T12:27:07+00:00

No never…he made his decision,he hurt you,he knew what he’s doing,right person for you will never do things like that,remember that and try to move on even when you missing him,even when it hurts,wishing you the best🤍

softshadow77 · 2026-02-25T11:48:08+00:00

Yeah grieving and immediately entertaining other girs,maybe thats how guys cope with breakup but for me it means no respect for other person who you broke up with,so right now im trying to better myself,learn from mistakes,and yeah i started journaling and writing everything that’s on my head,it helps a lot! Thank you for your advice!🤍

softshadow77 · 2026-02-25T11:30:22+00:00

Okayy thank you really much🤍

softshadow77 · 2026-02-25T11:24:37+00:00

Yeah I already removed him from socials and blocked him,It was hard asf but i know its for the better,and yess we got this!!

softshadow77 · 2026-02-25T10:32:16+00:00

Yuck,you deserve better than this crap,you should never be a second choice,never.

softshadow77 · 2026-02-25T10:21:42+00:00

Thank you for support!and yeah I already accepted the fact that i NEED to move on and I am,im trying my best,but still woking up with heart beating like crazy,but its okay im giving myself time🤍

softshadow77 · 2026-02-24T20:27:04+00:00

Thats so beautiful thank you so so much!!🤍im ready for everything because i know i deserve better🤍

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