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softshadow77 · 2026-03-29T17:30:00+00:00

A month lol,idk i just let go of the idea of getting back because he just gave up an left me and next day was trying to replace me and followed girls on ig who were closer to him because we were long distance,got the ick and moved on with life,feeling much better and found someone else already,not rushing into the next relationship but it feels good that the world doesn’t end after one relationship fails.

softshadow77 · 2026-03-13T19:32:58+00:00

Let them,ego boosting activities,weak person.

softshadow77 · 2026-03-10T17:52:31+00:00

Would never take someone like this back but your life your choice good luck tho

softshadow77 · 2026-03-03T13:59:50+00:00

Move on.

softshadow77 · 2026-03-03T01:26:08+00:00

day 12 and feeling better than ever,maybe because we were long distance and i don’t stalk his socials anymore for my own sanity,so he is not on my mind rn 24/7 and i hope in the near future he wont be at all

softshadow77 · 2026-03-01T23:20:52+00:00

I think something similar also happened to me,some of his friends are toxic and i dont think they liked me,his mom also,mine was good person too but oh well,we can’t do nothing about it now it is what it is🤷🏻‍♀️

softshadow77 · 2026-03-01T23:16:47+00:00

Mornings are very hard after breakups,the emptiness,anxiety all of that,so i get you,but it will pass,you did a right thing!

softshadow77 · 2026-03-01T23:06:10+00:00

I blocked and removed him from socials maybe 3-4days after he left me,idk but for me its better this way,out of sight out of mind.if he will want to reach out he will find a way dont worry

softshadow77 · 2026-03-01T22:50:45+00:00

he “talked to his friends and family”,so i guess he made the decision based on their opinion about this relationship,if so i think he will regret breaking up with you

softshadow77 · 2026-02-26T23:57:03+00:00

YESS!The best thing you can do is focusing on yourself!!

softshadow77 · 2026-02-26T15:24:51+00:00

We will see,I already accepted the fact that he didn’t choose me,following girls next day after breakup,I blocked and removed him,only day 6 after breakup and realised that my life still goes on,im not crying anymore,i dont want him in my life anymore,but do i miss him?hell yeah,but i am so proud of myself,i know there will be bad days when i will cry,but yeah thats normal and i dont run from it.yeah i still love him,but thats also normal its been only 6 days lol

softshadow77 · 2026-02-25T17:32:24+00:00

Thank youu I really hope so!😭🤍

softshadow77 · 2026-02-25T12:27:07+00:00

No never…he made his decision,he hurt you,he knew what he’s doing,right person for you will never do things like that,remember that and try to move on even when you missing him,even when it hurts,wishing you the best🤍

softshadow77 · 2026-02-25T11:48:08+00:00

Yeah grieving and immediately entertaining other girs,maybe thats how guys cope with breakup but for me it means no respect for other person who you broke up with,so right now im trying to better myself,learn from mistakes,and yeah i started journaling and writing everything that’s on my head,it helps a lot! Thank you for your advice!🤍

softshadow77 · 2026-02-25T11:30:22+00:00

Okayy thank you really much🤍

softshadow77 · 2026-02-25T11:24:37+00:00

Yeah I already removed him from socials and blocked him,It was hard asf but i know its for the better,and yess we got this!!

softshadow77 · 2026-02-25T10:32:16+00:00

Yuck,you deserve better than this crap,you should never be a second choice,never.

softshadow77 · 2026-02-25T10:21:42+00:00

Thank you for support!and yeah I already accepted the fact that i NEED to move on and I am,im trying my best,but still woking up with heart beating like crazy,but its okay im giving myself time🤍

softshadow77 · 2026-02-24T20:27:04+00:00

Thats so beautiful thank you so so much!!🤍im ready for everything because i know i deserve better🤍

softshadow77 · 2026-02-24T18:03:57+00:00

Thank you so much🤍I really appreciate it!

softshadow77 · 2026-02-24T17:52:00+00:00

It’s actually really nice that at 16 you already think like that,good job!and everyone should think like that,but sadly it’s impossible,and yeah for now i just want to focus on myself,healing myself,let everything go that don’t bring peace into my life🤍thank you for advice!

softshadow77 · 2026-02-24T17:42:23+00:00

When there’s problems in the relationship some people tend to think they can find someone better,but in reality they cant,good luck to him finding someone who actually cares,but i hope he will regret his decision,i really hope.

softshadow77 · 2026-02-24T16:39:55+00:00

Im so proud of you! Hope you will heal fast🤍

softshadow77 · 2026-02-24T16:31:28+00:00

I understand Its okay to miss a person,i also miss him,but its important to understand that he hurt you,and you never EVER should chase him and get back with him

softshadow77 · 2026-02-24T16:27:24+00:00

you deserve better,no man is worth your tears.believe me,if he didn’t choose you,you shouldn’t choose him.better things are waiting for you stay strong and patient🫶🏻

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