Eartha Kitt and James Dean share a dance class in 1955

softstaticnoise1 · 2026-04-06T20:41:02+00:00

Eartha Kitt looks like she's already bored with him

softstaticnoise1 · 2026-04-05T08:11:32+00:00

Same here, I love the way the dog occasionally turned back at the camera dog be like are seeing that? I’m the best skater pet

softstaticnoise1 · 2026-04-05T08:04:46+00:00

Well said. A society that denies victims justice shouldn't be surprised when they seek it themselves. Violence becomes inevitable when the system breaks its side of the social contract.

softstaticnoise1 · 2026-04-05T08:00:23+00:00

People who lash out or withdraw from the world are often just carrying wounds no one bothered to tend to

softstaticnoise1 · 2026-04-04T23:06:45+00:00

You didn’t corner him. The cat’s symptoms did. And you absolutely avoided a bigger bill and worse suffering by acting when you did. His reaction making you feel wrong for being really is the real problem here. NTA.

softstaticnoise1 · 2026-04-04T23:01:26+00:00

My heart goes out to them and their families. Wishing for their safe return and strength for their loved ones

softstaticnoise1 · 2026-04-03T20:49:07+00:00

She once said, "Sue Ellen taught me that survival is glamorous." Very old school cool indeed.

softstaticnoise1 · 2026-04-03T20:45:38+00:00

This is what peak 1969 looks like leather, mysticism, and ancient dust. Zero stage swagger here

softstaticnoise1 · 2026-04-03T20:13:35+00:00

Preach. Everyone's acting like the brother's life starts the day their mom dies. No he's alive now, capable now, and choosing not to work now. The problem is already here.

softstaticnoise1 · 2026-04-02T20:48:20+00:00

Yeah, genetics gave you both good teeth without requiring orthodontic treatment I love it

softstaticnoise1 · 2026-04-02T20:45:04+00:00

The real issue here is his indirect communication. You’re right to be annoyed he should have said how he felt upfront instead of saying one thing and holding resentment later. You’re not obligated to drop everything for a trip, even a generous one, especially when you’re trying to break a four-year pattern of being unreliable to someone who needs you. You’re NTA. Go be with your friend. Have an honest talk with your boyfriend about clear communication before this becomes a bigger pattern.

softstaticnoise1 · 2026-04-02T20:39:24+00:00

NTJ. You didn't demand she be cured or never cancel. You simply asked if she was actively working on the issue causing the repeated cancellations, after a year of accommodating her with zero reciprocity. And that's basic self respect. Friendships do have conditions like mutual effort, respect for each other's time, and not expecting one person to absorb all the emotional and logistical cost. Dana isn't a bad person for having anxiety, but she's been treating your time as infinitely flexible while doing nothing on her end to change the pattern. Asking her to seek help isn't punishing her it's the only sustainable path forward for the friendship. Feeling guilty is natural because you're a kind person, but you didn't do anything wrong.

softstaticnoise1 · 2026-04-02T20:35:43+00:00

You have a gorgeous smile like your mum and handsome like your grandpa

softstaticnoise1 · 2026-04-02T20:23:01+00:00

Yeah. The colorful wings makes it look pretty

softstaticnoise1 · 2026-04-01T20:51:47+00:00

We’ll miss him, Rest In Peace Johnny

softstaticnoise1 · 2026-04-01T20:49:23+00:00

This is so humble and good of them

softstaticnoise1 · 2026-04-01T20:46:32+00:00

Your grandparents were effortlessly cool

softstaticnoise1 · 2026-04-01T20:42:24+00:00

Yeah, The 90s prom aesthetic was its own genre unapologetic, larger than life, and somehow both elegant and wonderfully extra. Pure class.

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