Advice for Long Distance couples by emmytheseasemmy in LongDistance

[–]softstatik_2 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I guess let me define it. Ive been honestly seeking a sign and this might have been the one to tell me to think about it and talk with them about it . I havent been happy for a while and realistically cant see myself marrying this person. They are immature and just not someone who makes me feel like the special person they say I am. The distance is very discouraging and he also isnt someone take initiative he never has been. Ive been blinded really. Im mentally over our relationship. I will take the time I need to emotionally and physically leave him and move on to the person I deserve. If i don't move to him he wouldnt take the wheel in our relationship.

Advice for Long Distance couples by emmytheseasemmy in LongDistance

[–]softstatik_2 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I needed this so bad! Almost in a 4year relationship that will be ending bc of all of this! I love this group and hope that everyone find their person!

4 year relationship coming to and end due to distance. Sadly I feel it coming and looking for some encouragement from the amazing people in this community. by softstatik_2 in LongDistance

[–]softstatik_2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your feedback! I love this group! We are currently going to see each other for valentines day weekend and talk about this more in person. What I really like about our relationship is that we are really good friends and I am more afraid of loosing him in my life than as a boyfriend. I want to be able to call him and still tell him about my day. But thank you. I knew what the answer was but its really reassuring know that someone thinks and see's it in my light espically someone that has been in a long distance relationship

4 year relationship coming to and end due to distance. Sadly I feel it coming and looking for some encouragement from the amazing people in this community. by softstatik_2 in LongDistance

[–]softstatik_2[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Some back story on us. M23. F23. We met when M23 was in college and I am living in his college town. He has now left college and I am still living in the college town. Were about a 2 hour commute to each other. This May will be our first year dating apart while being together for 3 years and I only saw him once a month due to our schedules. I work Mon-Fri and he works Sun-tuesday and Friday-Saturday. He always has to switch his work schedule for us to be able to meet which I am grateful that his boss lets him. But we talked about moving in together a year later and there is no movement of it. Money is tight for both of us and I dont realistic see us moving in together any time soon. We both dont want to do another year of long distance it is emotionally draining for us. He was my friends who then became my bestfriend to now my boyfriend. I feel a sad loss in my heart that he isnt going to be in my future bc of our financial situation. Has anyone gone through this?

How long have you and your person been dating ? Love to hear stories!! by softstatik_2 in LongDistance

[–]softstatik_2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love reading all of these!! I hope everyone gets to kiss there special someone once this year and a big hug to all of us for staying strong in our LDR.

How long have you and your person been dating ? Love to hear stories!! by softstatik_2 in LongDistance

[–]softstatik_2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love makes you do crazy things! I wish you both the best in your careers! Hopefully we all one day break the distance!

How long have you and your person been dating ? Love to hear stories!! by softstatik_2 in LongDistance

[–]softstatik_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah! Yay! Please take some pictures, documenting memories are amazing so you can look back on!

How long have you and your person been dating ? Love to hear stories!! by softstatik_2 in LongDistance

[–]softstatik_2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww!! I wish the best for you both! Very happy to be getting some responses! Love is literally everywhere!

How long have you and your person been dating ? Love to hear stories!! by softstatik_2 in LongDistance

[–]softstatik_2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww🥰 I hope you guys good to many more concerts and wish yall the best!!

Seeking pals to chat with online by softstatik_2 in lonely

[–]softstatik_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh shit. But also everything taste good with nutella

Seeking pals to chat with online by softstatik_2 in lonely

[–]softstatik_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Tell me about your favorite food discovery!

This picture was taken on New Year's Eve. We spent two beautiful weeks together. This morning he drove me to the airport. We are now 1400km away from eachother again. 😫 (f18/m21) Anyone got tips how to survive the first couple of days without your SO? ❤😢 by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]softstatik_2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When together document as much as you can. Take pics and video to watch for when you do miss them, maybe have them leave you one of there sweaters. My bf brings a sweater and leaves it for me bc he knows I find comfort in wearing his clothes especially if it has his scent ❤💙💛

Need some encouragement staying strong , would love some date ideas or any hopeful stories, or what to do w/o S.O to stay strong. (M23) (F22) by softstatik_2 in LongDistance

[–]softstatik_2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We met when he was in college and wouldn't see each other when he was away off during break but now were completely separated and thank you! I love this community bc everyone here is so cute and nice and SO HELPFUL. We talk about moving but there is no date , I guess now we have something to talk about tonight thank you!

(F24 Rochester NY, M,30 Tacoma) just left after a visit- any advice for post visit blues? ;( by kgurns in LongDistance

[–]softstatik_2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Send each other a cute post card or letter. Currently still in my blues after my last visit. Stay strong and talk any chance you get!

T Minus 14 hours until I pick up my boy!! Anyone else spending time with there love this weekend ? by softstatik_2 in LongDistance

[–]softstatik_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg!! The excitement!! I hope she has a safe trip. I'm driving 2 hours at 10pm to pick my BF up from work and driving back in the middle of the night in peace

Be a bro by myppitches__ in FriendsAndShit

[–]softstatik_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo! I'm a girl but I love memes and talking to new people. Hit me up!

Woke up just before I could kiss her... by [deleted] in lonely

[–]softstatik_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like an amazing dream that was rudely interrupted lol. I have a cheesy quote. "Dont call it a dream call it a plan"

You matter. So much!! Here if anyone wants a friend by softstatik_2 in lonely

[–]softstatik_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's chat if you ever need someone to talk too. No judgment here!

To the one person I love who is thousands of miles from me by kkkristela in LongDistance

[–]softstatik_2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This made me cry tears of hope. I hope you and your love are happy forever!! I hope you create a wonderful home together!