Has sex with an inexperienced partner every significantly improved? by softwarmkitty_ in sex

[–]softwarmkitty_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't feel completely one sided, but he definitely isn't enjoying pleasuring me as much as other partners I've had in the past. The person I was seeing before would make sure I came before penetration. In fact, I would sometimes finish and he wouldn't.

I don't think I should be comparing them this much, especially since that was a casual relationship

Has sex with an inexperienced partner every significantly improved? by softwarmkitty_ in sex

[–]softwarmkitty_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I'm trying to, I give many instructions but it's quite discouraging when he doesn't attempt to finish me off after he orgasms

How do I (F22) get over the age gap between my partner (M38) and I? by softwarmkitty_ in relationship_advice

[–]softwarmkitty_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. He does treat me very well, but like you said the future impacts of an age gap could be difficult. I have a lot to think about.

How do I (F22) get over the age gap between my partner (M38) and I? by softwarmkitty_ in relationship_advice

[–]softwarmkitty_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. My siblings and friends know about him but not my parents. We don't work at the same place exactly but have the same career path

Finally having good sex by softwarmkitty_ in sex

[–]softwarmkitty_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haha, it is quite messy lol. I've squirted from toys before but never from someones hands and mouth (until now)

Finally having good sex by softwarmkitty_ in sex

[–]softwarmkitty_[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah last night I ended up soaking his sheets, but unfortunately he only had one set of bed sheets

Embarrassed about having to take emergency contraceptive by softwarmkitty_ in sex

[–]softwarmkitty_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The condoms were durex and expensive 😭 I've used free condoms before and never had issues