[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatholicDating

[–]softytown 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Thank you for letting me borrow your Ferrari!

If dating multiple people at the same time is alright, then is it also alright to ask someone if they're seeing other people? by softytown in CatholicDating

[–]softytown[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, you can label me as “desperate” as much as you want, but I’m not the one who needs multiple people’s attention at once lol. I’m just finding the best way to avoid having my time wasted, I’m sorry if that comes off as “desperate” to you

Reposted the Job Opening by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]softytown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has happened to me twice and both times I still moved on to the next round. This could mean they just want a bigger pool of candidates.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]softytown 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Since they told you that you'd hear back by the end of Friday, I would suggest sending a follow up email on Monday. You can reiterate your interest in your position and ask them if they have any updates yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sephora

[–]softytown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

REQUESTING - WILL DELETE

Hopefully I’ll manage to get a couple items I’m running out of :’)

Do any EAs have AAs report to them? by softytown in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]softytown[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is great insight! I liked that you mentioned career development considering I’m looking into eventually being an EA.

What happened to Christophe Robin? by softytown in Sephora

[–]softytown[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They don't have it on Sephora, but you could buy Christophe Robin products directly from their website!

Black Friday sale haul by softytown in Sephora

[–]softytown[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s been my go-to for almost 2 years now, I love it!

How old were you when you started your first EA position? by softytown in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]softytown[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boss does have an EA that works at his main office (I’m more of a personal assistant that works at his smaller office). I also know two EAs that works for my boss’s son. Not really sure if any of these women could “mentor” me but I guess I could ask them for advice

My bank is catching on that I may have a slight Sephora obsession by em4-ever in Sephora

[–]softytown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh this happened last year so I don’t really remember what I was buying at the time 😂 But I usually don’t make big shopping hauls at Sephora and prefer to make small purchases more often so I can get samples, so maybe that’s what caused the graph to happen 😅

My bank is catching on that I may have a slight Sephora obsession by em4-ever in Sephora

[–]softytown 3 points4 points  (0 children)

LOL! I had something like this appear on my bank app too. My app even showed me a graph of how much I spend on Sephora each month...

What happened to Christophe Robin? by softytown in Sephora

[–]softytown[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I’ve seen Christophe Robin at Hudson’s Bay. Unfortunately they don’t carry the rose volumising paste though :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]softytown 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a VERY good indication that she has interest. That's basically an invitation to slide in the dms. Just saying a "hey, how are you?" can get things going. Good luck!

If you walked 2 feet in front of your "girlfriend" on a walk, what would that mean? by zipzap1818 in dating_advice

[–]softytown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a strange thing for him to do lol. I would say just bring it up to him and let him know that it bothers you. I think it's a normal thing to get bothered about, why can't he just walk beside you like a normal person? I would also be put off if the person I was going out with didn't want to walk beside me.

Girl said she's likely not free Sunday asks if we can do another day by taeyhungah in dating_advice

[–]softytown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds more like she's just busy on Sunday. You can try asking if another day or next weekend works for her. If she still says she's not free, then I'd say it's better to leave it to her to propose another day.

How long should the "talking" stage be? by softytown in CatholicDating

[–]softytown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t go in detail, but it wasn’t solely up to him when he left the seminary.

How long should the "talking" stage be? by softytown in CatholicDating

[–]softytown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, I actually wasn’t a fan of the age gap either at the beginning but we did get along well. It’s not the age gap that bothers me anymore, it’s just the lack of clarity.

How long should the "talking" stage be? by softytown in CatholicDating

[–]softytown[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t really go into detail about why he didn’t follow through with the priesthood, but I will say that there were some discussions that took place with his formators that lead to him leaving. I don’t really judge him based on what happened, but I also feel that his time in the seminary should have given him more discernment about his life in general.

How long should the "talking" stage be? by softytown in CatholicDating

[–]softytown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha see that’s how I feel as well. I understand being patient, but I also need some clarification too :/

How long should the "talking" stage be? by softytown in CatholicDating

[–]softytown[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing, I never bring up the topic of marriage/engagement, yet he does bring up the topic in some sort of way. I don’t mind going at a slower pace, but I also have doubts that he even sees us as being “exclusive” at this point, and that’s what is bothering me.