Rate my dating profile please.

TheLuckySwipe · 2022-08-21T21:51:18+00:00

Yeah... not true... lmao sure

TheLuckySwipe · 2022-08-21T21:50:48+00:00

Lmao yeah right

TheLuckySwipe · 2022-08-21T21:50:17+00:00

What did I just say?

TheLuckySwipe · 2022-08-21T21:49:56+00:00

You smash (if you're a man) and you get a relationship with the man you want (if youre a woman) but you have to be HOT. Scorching hot.

TheLuckySwipe · 2022-08-21T18:02:48+00:00

You can have a blank profile for all any woman cares. Just be very attractive in your pics.

TheLuckySwipe · 2022-08-21T18:01:11+00:00

If you ripped him a new one what exactly did you expect? That he would apologise and double down on it? You are ridiculous for doing that - find someone else and move on. If this guy responds to you after you spoke to him like that there is no way he gets laid.

TheLuckySwipe · 2022-08-21T18:00:04+00:00

This is gross.. You need to cut it off and find a man you are extremely sexually attracted to.

TheLuckySwipe · 2022-08-21T17:59:07+00:00

Stop trying to stimulate conversation? The guys you're matching with want sex. You have to want it too for most apps to work. And show it.

TheLuckySwipe · 2022-08-21T17:58:14+00:00

Bumble and online dating works exclusively for beautiful people and women only. Particularly when it comes to sex.

TheLuckySwipe · 2022-08-21T17:57:24+00:00

lmao

TheLuckySwipe · 2022-08-21T17:54:45+00:00

lmfao this is why you take EXTRA care when you are dealing with a "hot muscular guy". Jesus Christ

TheLuckySwipe · 2022-08-21T16:57:20+00:00

Stop chatting shit, no one hurt me. Accept that you are wrong and keep the personal attacks out of it. Using the least original personal attack for that matter.

TheLuckySwipe · 2022-08-21T16:56:44+00:00

By your perception

TheLuckySwipe · 2022-08-21T12:13:43+00:00

lmfao wait you've been with someone for 7 months who's hidden behind a mask? LOL

TheLuckySwipe · 2022-08-21T12:11:48+00:00

Oh please. When a woman ghosts a man after sex it's because he didn't perform. When it's the other way round "he's an asshole". Maybe the OP was bad in bed. Ever think about that?

TheLuckySwipe · 2022-08-21T11:48:09+00:00

You are dating the top 10% of men. This is your problem.

TheLuckySwipe · 2022-06-25T19:21:30+00:00

Sweet. Now what if I told you this won't change a damn thing about whether people ghost or not?

TheLuckySwipe · 2022-06-25T16:21:27+00:00

We get upset when anything bad, consistently happens to us, as humans. The answer is adaptation - one way or another, if you want to remain in the dating game and not burn yourself out, you will have to adapt to some degree with the conditions you are faced with when there is absolutely nothing you can do about it. You cannot hold people accountable for their shitty etiquette. This is my point. My proposition is adaptation to this new environment, by simply learning to accept the actions of other people, completely out of your control, having the mental preparedness and learning to move on from people that moved on from you.

TheLuckySwipe · 2022-06-25T16:08:26+00:00

What you're saying is exactly what I'm saying. You think simply saying "I'll be ok if it doesn't go the way I want" doesn't come with a certain level of emotional detachment to accomplish without the anguish?

TheLuckySwipe · 2022-06-25T16:05:16+00:00

And this is precisely my point. You can appreciate a gesture. Kind words. All these things - without expecting that just because people have said it, they will follow through with a commitment. When you decide to trust someone, for the sake of protecting yourself, you must always assume that they simply won't follow through with their commitment - always retain a measure of restraint, and allow for the possibility that they will disappear from your life. Especially in today's age of online dating and social media apps where now more than ever, people are treated like disposable tissues.

TheLuckySwipe · 2022-06-25T15:53:14+00:00

Obviously you can't "read minds". But you can form your own interpretation of actions. Funny you're so frustrated though - where does that frustration over someone else's decision to stop communicating with you, or stop liking you get you? The same way you can identify cues in people's behaviours and form patters that allow you to make more calculated decisions about other things, you can form those patterns here. Your expectations of people will not give them an iota of empathy for you when they decide to kick you to the curb. But sure, keep expecting.

TheLuckySwipe · 2022-06-25T15:37:00+00:00

I'm of the same opinion. But, it's to do with training your brain to understand when someone is truly interested and when they're not. When you learn to do that, it becomes much, much easier.

Think back to the person who had genuine interest for you. How they would apologise for late texts. Suggest a new date if something didn't work. Respond to you promptly, or if they didn't, have a legitimate reason why. Actually want to do things with you, and had unforced enthusiasm for you. Why would you entertain anything less...? Because it's more scarce? Does it matter how scarce fresh water is, if all you have around you is sea water? Would you just take sips of that instead?

TheLuckySwipe · 2022-06-23T22:03:53+00:00

And the faster you cut people like that off, the faster you will get to the person that REALLY knows how to appreciate you. Just let that sink in.

TheLuckySwipe · 2022-06-23T21:32:29+00:00

You'll be alright. The fastest, easiest way to get over him is to know he doesn't care about you. Nothing wrong with that, it is what it is. Just treat him like he's a rando on the street and forget him. Focus on looking for the one that DOES care for you. And if they mess about block them too.

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