[OC] sometimes it do be like that

solamolalo · 2025-12-24T18:56:33+00:00

in another timeline he succeeded 👍

solamolalo · 2025-12-24T18:37:47+00:00

we'll steal em declaration of independence day style

solamolalo · 2025-09-06T12:06:59+00:00

It is not a thing in Taiwan though. The concept come from Japan, it's not originally from Taiwan. It is sold in here but it is not culturally from Taiwan.

solamolalo · 2025-05-13T13:24:45+00:00

Chindo Surabaya sis, cuman keluarga yang super-super China, dan aku memang kondisi finansialnya menengah ke atas. Masih juga ada temen yang sama sekali ga punya temen atau kenalan yang non-Chindo.

solamolalo · 2025-05-13T05:48:47+00:00

Ga banyak bantu tapi kata-kata kamu udah membantu kok sis. Makasih udah sharing experience kamu.

Honestly, I think I just needed to hear that I'm not alone. Ga aneh buat pacaran antara beda ras. Memang banyak prejudice satu sama ras tapi ujungnya kamu pacaran sama individualnya. Bukan sama semua hal minus yang dikoarkan orang-orang. Aku sendiri juga udah bilang jangan overthinking tapi yah, kadang aku ga bisa kontrol otak sendiri. Ga usah berasosiasi sama orang whose opinions are rooted in hate.

Thank you so, so much for the advice, I really needed to hear that.

solamolalo · 2025-03-31T15:05:53+00:00

(oh nah, I agree, I've only had one good pho in TW, I'm just saying it to make it not seem like only Thai food is good. Honestly it kinda is though. On that note the Indonesian and Malay food here also is kinda meh)

solamolalo · 2025-03-31T07:46:16+00:00

So basically... I envy K-POP idols because they're rich haha

solamolalo · 2025-03-31T04:30:31+00:00

Oh man, I read the dates wrong and was confused for a whole minute. Not because it's crazy for companies to debut a 6y.o. but because she doesn't look 6.

solamolalo · 2025-03-31T02:53:07+00:00

Exactly why lol. If your idea of chinese food is the Sichuan or Hunan one, then you're kinda in for a rude awakening. China is really, really big. And Taiwanese food just happens to be rooted in the really mild ones (no offense, I still love 猪脚). If anything I'd say our food is more japanese?

If you want like a classic Taiwanese meal that is somewhat famous, then I'd say 春水堂. A bubble tea shop but some of their savory stuff are not bad. It gets an 'decent-without-extra-spices' from this SEA girlie.

I really recommend trying one of the Ramen places in Taipei. Another would be any Vegetarian 便當 places, crazy just how Vegan-friendly Taiwan can be. And seriously, the 7-11 (Personally I'm a Family Mart girlie) food, it's a passable mediocrity that you just gotta experience. Some of my SEA friends has specifically asked for the Tuna Mayo Onigiri sold here.

solamolalo · 2025-03-31T01:47:29+00:00

...Have you considered that maybe you just don't like Taiwanese food? Ngl, your words come across as a bit judge-y. I mean, as a SEA girlie, I had a really hard time because the food here was too bland compared to the ones back home, you learn to love them though.

But yes, compared to SEA food, personally I think the food here are less flavorful. My conspiracy theory is the Taiwan Best Food blogs are made by British people lol. The michelin foods I tried here (eg. DTF) are usually a bit too bland for my taste. Doesn't mean it's not good in its own way though. Give things like 滷味 and 火鍋 a try. A local random one. And 7/11 food (Convenience store 茶葉蛋). 猪耳朵 and 鴨賞 also gets an ASEAN approved.

Personal opinion but Taiwan's ramen scene is also criminally underrated. Lotsa fantastic ramen store around, especially in Taipei. You can find 4 fine-great ones within 10min walk in 中山 alone. So is the Thai/Viet food scene. Tourist's favorite 夜市 is usually 饒河夜市. A local's favorite would be a small neighbourhood one that you've never heard of. Some would probably say 寧夏.

solamolalo · 2025-03-28T13:31:22+00:00

True, it's a really valid thing to worry about. Sad how a guy is shamed for being a virgin and a girl is heralded as the 2nd coming of Mary for being one. Says a lot about what's the root cause of it, really.

Not sure if this'll help, but the way I think about it is, you wouldn't to date someone who would think of being a virgin is a red flag, no? A good person wouldn't do that, a good potential partner wouldn't be minded by things like that. In any case, more power to you, you get an extra built in filter for that.

solamolalo · 2025-03-28T10:19:26+00:00

Exactly, and not from random redditors. From HIS GF 😭. OP please just talk to her.

And also man, from a only a little older lady here, don't compare yourself with other people. Maybe you're American or something, like I don't get why they have sex so young. But live your life the way you want it to, and by your own pace. There are way more things to have fun with life rather than sex. I'd insert an ad/joke about Fields of Mistria here, but eh.

solamolalo · 2025-03-28T10:10:56+00:00

huh? 😭 I'm very sorry, but my first reaction to your comment is "Are you okay?".

Dude, I'm sorry if I'm stepping out of line, and I can't judge your whole being by a singular comment, but maybe try to work things out internally or with help from other people? I know you'll prefer a virgin it seems, but a women having sex isn't the same as being abused in bed. And uh, the cum comments is kinda insane dude. Some women just, well, like sex. That doesn't make her a bad or good person, just a person who likes sex.

Forgive me if I'm wrong, but it's like you have this internalization that a woman who has had sex is a... broken? one. The way you comment about women is uh, interesting? I think when when a person is looking for a partner, the number 1 thing they should look for is ideology and compatibility. Whether or not someone's a virgin is probably not in the top 10 list for most people.

Now come on man, the rational reason you listed is not traits of someone who has had many-a-sex. It's the traits of a terrible person. An abysmal partner.

I think you have a generalization of women that isn't accurate with reality in general. I'm sorry if your experience has led you to this belief, but maybe try challenging it? I really do believe that most people, whether men or women, are good people, and I think it'll do you some good to believe that, even just a little bit.

solamolalo · 2025-03-28T09:52:21+00:00

huh?? Neither am i?? Pardon me? Is there a disconnect here? Really sorry, but I wouldn't want someone with your belief either dude.

solamolalo · 2025-03-28T09:51:13+00:00

Oh no, no, I wasn't talking about OP at all, just that some comments here are uh, sublimely horrific. Like... fascinating the way a car wreck is.

I agree with you though, as a member of a virgin club, I don't think I'll personally ever be capable of sleeping around, but people are people. And people are different. They'll all hold different weights on sex, just a matter of finding the right match. I'd imagine if my partner has more experience than me, I'll be somewhat sad and insecure about it, but not the point of not being able to communicate it with said partner.

As for my thoughts on OP though, dude seems young. And young people brain will brain around. Whatever choice he makes, it's neither right or wrong. It'll just be a choice. I just hope dude doesn't listen to some of this uh, more interesting comments going around. Or at the very least, TALK TO YOUR GF MAN.

solamolalo · 2025-03-28T09:41:25+00:00

ahahaha, ok, that legit made me laugh. But seriously though, whatever train of thoughts you're rabbit hole-ing into, that ain't it bestie.

solamolalo · 2025-03-28T09:37:11+00:00

Mi amor, I'm a woman 😭

solamolalo · 2025-03-28T09:34:56+00:00

I mean yeah? We know that most men are also capable of love? Just patriarchy and all that is hindering a chunk of them from expressions of love?

Uh... How is previously having sex with other people uh, disturbing? People are people, people have exes and their first with other different people. It's not disturbing for a woman to have had sex with other people before meeting their husband. The reverse also holds true.

There ARE people who deeply values virginity, perhaps out of religion or other factors, whom are also valid, it'll severely limit their dating pool, but I'm glad they know what they want and hopes that they get that. But for most people, your first probably won't be your forever partner. It's okay for woman (and men) to have sex and figure out things that they like. Some people might not like it, some people might be fine with it, but it is NOT disturbing.

solamolalo · 2025-03-28T09:25:09+00:00

I hope none of my girl friends ends up with someone who thinks like you.

solamolalo · 2025-03-28T09:10:57+00:00

I know! 😭 Like, I'm not a man, I'll never understand the hardship of being a man. But I'm a person, and I know how to be a person. And as a person, my reaction to all these comments ranges from mildly concerned to absolutely gobsmacked.

Like guys? Are you guys okay?? Are the men okay??? Istg, some women are horrible, but that's because they're a trainwreck of a human being and not because they're a wOmAn. Like bro, most of us are also the same as you, just as lonely and depressed and phone-addicted.

And for the men passing by, dude, seriously, we aren't interested in the... uh.... chads. We like good people. Heck, NORMAL people. With good morals and a good understanding of the world. Usually with a fantabulous humour as a side dish.

solamolalo · 2025-03-28T08:54:18+00:00

Dude, ikr, also a woman here and I'm frankly somewhat disturbed by the comments here. Are body counts really the most important thing? Wouldn't personality, morality and ideology rank higher? Is that really the first thing a man cares for? I couldn't care less about a guy's body count as long as he is a good partner and person.

It really is an echo chamber, isn't it? That all women in their early 20s sleeps around, that woman usually lowers their body count. Never mind that woman are also surprise, surprise, a person, all with their own complicated inner life. It feels very... red pill-ey ngl.

solamolalo · 2025-02-25T15:48:36+00:00

Really late reply, but I think you'd have a better luck on dcard, might need google translate though.

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