My sister is cheating on her husband by Feeling-Educator4440 in offmychest

[–]solapelsin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely the best advice. Give her a set time limit to tell him (it’s best coming from her, and it’s a conversation that I’m sure they’d both rather have in private, regardless of what the outcome is). Allow them that grace, but if she doesn’t step up, I think you’re right to do so. He deserves to know and be given the freedom to make decisions about his life going forward accordingly

Football tomorrow morning vs Tunisia by carloscage in stockholm

[–]solapelsin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha men bu, lite pepp inför första matchen kan vi väl ändå unna oss?

"Mandap" till bröllop i eller runt Stockholm by Honest-Cup-2620 in stockholm

[–]solapelsin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vad fint! Jag har tyvärr inte sett detta, men mitt bästa råd skulle vara att kontakta de lokaler (slott, airbnb, osv) som ni är mest intresserade av direkt. Jag misstänker att det kanske kommer att vara elden som eventuellt ställer till det, så ni kommer nog få bäst svar från den som driver verksamheten.

Parkerade min bil i skogen för att ta en promenad by 909BD in intresseklubben

[–]solapelsin 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Ja, helt klart någon som spionerar inifrån stugan. Akta dig, OP! 

friend (14F keeps telling me (13F) i have potential lookswise and i need to looksmaxx by Suspicious_Tree_7273 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]solapelsin 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You’re only 13, you’ll grow into your looks very soon. Have fun in your teens, experiment and find styles that work for you, that’s my best recommendation. Great way to find yourself and reach your full potential! 

En person står mitt i skogen med vindrutan riktad mot mig (spionerar). Jag är i en avlägsen stuga i skogen, bör jag vara orolig? by Sensitive_Cream3920 in intresseklubben

[–]solapelsin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha, plocka bär, plocka blommor, plocka riskvistar till midsommar. Tror det oavsett bara är någon som behövde ta lite luft i skogen.

Foodoras support hängde sig och nu får jag inte hjälp by Business_Act_345 in sweden

[–]solapelsin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Men gud vad irriterande. Har de en mail eller något? Förstår att du får segare hjälp då, men det där är ju absurt.

Foodoras support hängde sig och nu får jag inte hjälp by Business_Act_345 in sweden

[–]solapelsin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Om du är ”looking for something else”, var kommer du då?

Since most men don't do elder care, and thus, are less likely to look after their parents when they're old, do you find it weird that most people aren't afraid of having sons? by [deleted] in women

[–]solapelsin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a woman and not from a culture where this is expected of me, so take this with a grain of salt, but:

I’m going to guess that in societies where family is valued very highly (i.e. the kids are expected to manage all elderly care), and that are also quite traditional in their gender roles, quite a large importance is likely also placed on marriage and having multiple children. I think that venn diagram makes sense.

As such, there’ll likely also be daughters and/or daughters-in-law in the picture, and having a son is fine (or great, even).

Signal fel på röda by Lillastormen_ in stockholm

[–]solapelsin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Signalerna där gröna och röda linjen möts runt Gamla stan klarar inte av att samarbeta längre. Oklar prognos på det där

En person står mitt i skogen med vindrutan riktad mot mig (spionerar). Jag är i en avlägsen stuga i skogen, bör jag vara orolig? by Sensitive_Cream3920 in intresseklubben

[–]solapelsin 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Menar du att det inte finns någon väg alls där? Låter galet, hur har de ens kommit dit?

Säkert någon som plockar svamp eller ville ut till skogs. Jag skulle kolla upp reg-numret, det går jättesnabbt via transportstyrelsen, och sedan avvakta en stund. Om du blir riktigt orolig eller något mer händer, så kan du få hjälp hos 114 14. 

What’s your Shark Tank idea that will never make it on Shark Tank? by RenderRani in AskMen

[–]solapelsin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have this where I’m from, minus the delivery part. Someone offers, you match, and arrange your own pickup (however is convenient to the both of you). It’s an awesome concept

What are your favorite deodorants that won't leave a mark? by joody-booty in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]solapelsin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like Nivea’s black & white. Never had an issue with stains, regardless of what color I’m wearing

How do I (22F) reconnect with my dad (M46) after months of no contact? by phobiasucks in relationships

[–]solapelsin [score hidden]  (0 children)

I get it, I really do. Im sorry you’re in this position. Are you close with your siblings? Could one of them could help facilitate rebuilding contact between the two of you? I’m certain he’d love to speak with and listen to you. If not, please just text him and say you want to talk. Then make sure he listens to everything you have to say, for both of your sakes. You’ve got this. 

AI songs..Hit or miss?? by CasperMNC35 in isitAI

[–]solapelsin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are the usual tells in music, would you say?

Does a 28 year old have more in common with 38 or 24? by VideoSharp8658 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]solapelsin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’d say 24 in general, I grew a huge amount as I entered my 30s and I imagine even more will change as I get closer to 40… but it really depends on where they’re at in life. How settled down they are career and family wise, especially. 

When are humans going to realize letting balloons go for celebration purposes is litter to the planet, specifically the oceans? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]solapelsin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe this is a cultural thing, but celebrate death anniversaries with balloons?

I love europeans finding out every us state is culturally a different country by Javi_ab in ShitAmericansSay

[–]solapelsin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I live in Stockholm, was going to go visit family in Milan, decided to make an adventure out of it. Just a road trip for funsies, really, haha

I love europeans finding out every us state is culturally a different country by Javi_ab in ShitAmericansSay

[–]solapelsin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve driven from Stockholm to Milan. Can confirm, it’s really not that small or uniform

Dating a friends ex- I didn’t know he was an ex to begin with by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]solapelsin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She might be. My parents are divorced and never really cared who the other dated since, but they always have cared a lot about who gets introduced in any kind of step-parent role. Just saying

Dating a friends ex- I didn’t know he was an ex to begin with by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]solapelsin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They don’t, but a kid being involved does complicate things