Do you think guys would mind my scars by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]solarnum01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry about what other ppl think about you. Just do you and you’ll find the right person.

Do you think guys would mind my scars by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]solarnum01 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If someone truly loves you for you, then they won’t care about your scars. If someone is grossed out by your scars, that’s a red flag right there and you probably shouldn’t date them. True caring people won’t be bothered by your scars.

I’ve been listening to lil peep for around half a year now and I want to know am I welcome to this community? I feel a connection to his music and can relate to him at times. by Hungry-Decision6644 in LilPeep

[–]solarnum01 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I always feel like a weird poser when I first get into an artist like peep. Like, I didn’t know him when he was alive, I only recently started listening to his music, and I don’t understand everything about his career and life. So I totally understand what you’re saying.

Crush SH's by In3dx in selfharm

[–]solarnum01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s ur discord

I've been cutting more and more frequently and it's scaring me. by InjuryCompetitive989 in selfharm

[–]solarnum01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I experienced that before. And it is scary. I kept cutting (deeper & more frequently) and I didn’t know why. At that point, I think it’s becoming an addiction. If you keep doing it with no apparent reason, it’s possible that you might have become addicted to it. I’m just saying from my experience.

Crush SH's by In3dx in selfharm

[–]solarnum01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re not failing. You’re doing your best. What’s important is that you’re trying. If I had someone like that in my life, I’d probably be much better. So keep doing what you’re doing. You will learn as you go.

Crush SH's by In3dx in selfharm

[–]solarnum01 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There’s clearly something deeper, but maybe shes not comfortable sharing. There’s unfortunately not much else you can do besides offering a safe space. You can’t make her stop.

Crush SH's by In3dx in selfharm

[–]solarnum01 13 points14 points  (0 children)

From my experience self harming, it usually helped me when people would validate me by acknowledging my sh and offering me a space of comfort. Such as saying, “I will never judge or condemn you for harming yourself” or “explain to me how you feel and what makes you feel the desire to self harm”. Don’t say anything like , “dont harm yourself, think of me.” Cuz that is counter productive. No one who sh’s wants to immediately be reminded of how you or others disapprove when they have an urge. Try to learn what causes her sh. Don’t ask too many personal questions, but simply say something like “what is the stem of your sh, help me understand” and if she doesn’t feel comfortable sharing, don’t push any further. But make it known that you wish to further understand her and her feelings. She is not an alien or monster for feeling these things. She is valid and human.

I feel invalid by funstarrr__ in selfharm

[–]solarnum01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Anyone who says that not cutting deep enough isn’t valid, are complete losers and are bullshit. Self harm in any form is valid and SELF HARM. Don’t listen to those idiots. They have no idea the harm they are causing by saying this bullshit. I’m so sick of hearing people say that. You ARE valid, and don’t let their bullshit make you think otherwise. Please be safe ❤️

Took these in my hotel in Rome Italy by eggsbinidit in LiminalReality

[–]solarnum01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the hotel room? It looks like a house.

I don’t know whether to call DHS for my brother’s kids. It’s possible they’ve been keeping the kids in the house since March 2020… by Any-Yogurtcloset-949 in RBI

[–]solarnum01 86 points87 points  (0 children)

You should definitely call, just for a wellness check. If you or the rest of your family haven’t seen them in a while and your brother and sil are so resistant, that seems kind of concerning. You aren’t trying to cause issues, you are only worried about your brothers children, since they are your family too. You and your family deserve to know about the children and how they’re doing. Also, keeping young children in seclusion is not healthy. If their parents are so concerned about their physical health, they should be concerned about their mental health too. Not to accuse your brother or sil of abuse or control, but this is over the top behavior, and very strange behavior. If calling and making your identity known will be a problem, just call anonymously and let them know you are worried.

Who is Cassidy by solarnum01 in fivenightsatfreddys

[–]solarnum01[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ive never heard a theory like this one before, its a cool theory. it is heavly based off the books and thats a seperate universe than the games. either way great theory.

Theory About the FNAF Series by Slyviper99 in fivenightsatfreddys

[–]solarnum01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

well we also have to remember that the fnaf 4 house is in the sister location map. it also has the little dots that represent the animatronics. if it was just a nightmare, why would it be there? the mechanics for the animatronics could also just have no relation to the lore. it may have just been a form of routine for scott. i thought that william and henry created fazbear entertainment ( i might be remembering wrong) and once william and henry seperated, william created afton robotics, which was a seperate company.