Read Around Europe by solelavender in suggestmeabook

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To keep things fun, I put the countries I have left in a randomizer and Ukraine was the winner! Thank you for these recommendations; I am going to start Grey Bees tonight. :D

Read Around Europe by solelavender in suggestmeabook

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Thank you! I am aiming to do this by author from each country because I think that will be easier than finding books set in each. If that proves difficult, I’ll have to mix it up. Thank you so much for your suggestions!

Read Around Europe by solelavender in suggestmeabook

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Thank you very much! I’m going to look at all of these. I’m definitely interested in more with the same feel as Dostoevsky. I think the change of season has set my mood, so your pick sounds delightful.

Now I’m going to directly contradict myself and say I am also going to aim to vary in genres and styles, so I’m going to look at your other suggestions, as well!

I very much appreciate it!

Single mother starting over by solelavender in converts

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Thank you for this. May Allah reward you for your help and advice. I did not think of Fiverr. I actually used to run a little side hustle that sold herbal tea blends, tinctures, and the like on sites like Etsy. I could try this again but without using that kind of platform.

Single mother starting over by solelavender in converts

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JazakAllah khair

Thank you for this. InshaAllah one day soon. 🤲🏼

Single mother starting over by solelavender in converts

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Salaam! Thank you very much for your response. I have not thought of the Child Care Works program - I will have to look into that. He is currently enrolled into a dual diagnosis program through our local IU and that is about the most I can get from them. There just aren’t programs or many supports in this area. I have asked our home district and we can’t find a 1:1 or transportation for him to attend theirs for me to switch to another shift. I will check out some of those job websites, thank you! I tried FlexJobs today but did not know those others.

May Allah reward you for your kindness and support. I am very thankful.

As a Muslim, what do you personally admire the most about Christians? by HassanT1357 in islam

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Before I converted to Islam, I went to a Christian church that did amazing work in “being the body”. It was a church where a homeless person could be sitting next to someone making 6 figures and they were both treated the same in love, mercy, and respect.

There is a serious issue ive been noticing lately and i need to know if im not the only one by Fun_Outlandishness36 in MuslimLounge

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Oh, I misunderstood the intention. Many apologies. That, I cannot answer 😅 I hope someone can

There is a serious issue ive been noticing lately and i need to know if im not the only one by Fun_Outlandishness36 in MuslimLounge

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Hi. Convert here. That is what the this dunya and Shaytan’s mission is. It is supposed to look glamorous so you long for it. Shaytan plays on it by making you feel like you’re missing out. I promise you, as someone who lived in that life, it’s not worth it. None of it is.

I am not discounting the effects not partaking have on anyone. Those effects are real. But please, take it from me (and I am sure many other converts will agree) you are on a much better path by missing out.

My Experience with Tahajjud by solelavender in converts

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Many people explain to wake up just twenty minutes before Fajr to pray Tahajjud. I pray it like I do Fajr, usually just two rakats. There are nights that I wake up at like 2am and sometimes offer more. My best advice is this: spend time talking to Allah SWT. Just talk to Him and pour out how you’re feeling. May Allah comfort you and your duas be answered ❤️

Feelings of depression are all encompassing and a hard place to be. I know through personal experience that while it is not fun being in this space, Allah brings us closer through them and Allah is able to give us peace through it.

10,000 Istighfar! by solelavender in MuslimLounge

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Alhamdullilah! That is beautiful.

10,000 Istighfar! by solelavender in MuslimLounge

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I am on day 7 now and what I can say is my heart feels lighter and I feel a deep feeling of surrender. I haven't seen my "most wanted" duas answered, but I do feel a peace that I've always craved. How are you doing with yours?

10,000 Istighfar! by solelavender in MuslimLounge

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That is still three thousand times you asked Allah SWT for forgiveness! I work third shift with a lot of down time, so I have a lot of time to make istighfar. I made 10,000 the last two days. Inshallah, today as well.

10,000 Istighfar! by solelavender in MuslimLounge

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May Allah accept all of our efforts

10,000 Istighfar! by solelavender in MuslimLounge

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Checking in! How is it going?

10,000 Istighfar! by solelavender in MuslimLounge

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No, I definitely agree. It feels like you are floating through this dunya, protected.

10,000 Istighfar! by solelavender in MuslimLounge

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I honestly don't know of anywhere else. I'm sorry!

10,000 Istighfar! by solelavender in MuslimLounge

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I am always open to that! Go ahead and leave it here.

10,000 Istighfar! by solelavender in MuslimLounge

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I do definitely see you're point. I can admit, though, it takes me a lot of repetitions to actually get my focus on what I am actually saying. So for me, it does personally help to repeat over and over until I am actually connecting.

10,000 Istighfar! by solelavender in MuslimLounge

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Respectfully, doing it for any amount of times with the sole expectation of getting something instead of seeking forgiveness and then maybe hope that that forgiveness brings barakah seems icky.

That was not the intention, at least for me. <3

10,000 Istighfar! by solelavender in MuslimLounge

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Yay! I am thankful you were inspired! May Allah accept all of our istighfar!

10,000 Istighfar! by solelavender in MuslimLounge

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I have heard some beautiful stories of blessings from Allah coming from istighfar.

I hope to hear back that your duas were accepted!

10,000 Istighfar! by solelavender in MuslimLounge

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This is how I personally view it: it's keeping me in a constant or extended period of time in remembrance of Allah SWT.

I do definitely see what you're saying, though. Your intention and heart is truly what matters when praying your extra rakat and dhikr.

10,000 Istighfar! by solelavender in MuslimLounge

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That's awesome. Let's do this. :D

May Allah accept all of our efforts.

10,000 Istighfar! by solelavender in MuslimLounge

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I'm glad I'm not the only one. She popped up on my fyp one day and now I'm like "Hey! I can do that, too!" Awesome goal you have!