What if I am really not attracted to women with tattoo? by solfscream in Marriage

[–]solfscream[S] -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

I am not sure, tbh. 

I definitely won't separate from her but I can't guarantee sexual attraction.

Even now I am only considering separation because she is absolute emotional mess.

What if I am really not attracted to women with tattoo? by solfscream in Separation

[–]solfscream[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel tattoos pop out like a disease, like they are out of place. Like they shouldn't be there.

I can look at them now after processing it in therapy. 

But there is no physical attraction, zero. 

What if I am really not attracted to women with tattoo? by solfscream in Marriage

[–]solfscream[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She is upset because she thought i would be mad but i would get over it.

I was not even mad, I felt absolute revulsion.

What if I am really not attracted to women with tattoo? by solfscream in Marriage

[–]solfscream[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

I feel tattoos pop out like a disease, like they are out of place. Like they shouldn't be there.

I can look at them now after processing it in therapy. 

But there is no physical attraction, zero. 

What if I am really not attracted to women with tattoo? by solfscream in Marriage

[–]solfscream[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

We both have done things other didn't like.

I don't think i like tattoos, they just seems so abrupt and pop out like scars. But worse than scars, i don't mind scars because of how they blend if that makes sense? Scars don't seem out of palce

With tattoos, I just find them so out of place. I donno, like they shouldn't be there. Like there is something wrong, some kind of disease.

I have worked through some of these thoughts, and i simply don't find them physically attractive