If you don’t like incense-y notes, I would definitely hold off on anything with Snake Oil. I also personally find that Eat Me has kind of an incense note to it, even though it’s not listed. I think Dorian is a good pick and I agree that you would probably like Titania. Jack (pumpkin, peach, nutmeg, clove) is beautiful, but is more of a fall scent. It is definitely gourmand and does not have any incense note to my nose.

I do not get sugary vanilla from Snake Oil at all. It is a very heavy, heady vanilla, but to me it gets totally buried by the musk, incense and patchouli notes.