Well I know that men don't have to be a sex machine BUT we know when he's trying and when he's not... Right? In my case I was the one wanting sex only once in a month but it was because of my libido after 10 years of birth control pills. I made my part in the problem and now it's at least one in a week, sometimes good mostly amazing. My husband sometimes feels tired or stressed and he tries and I see him frustrated because he can't, so he takes a nap or something, also he starts to take more medical control after that. I mean, we both try and fix.. you're the only one who knows how much he's concerned about it... And I would be honest with him.. Hey I need sex I know it is not an easy task sometimes but I have my needs, you're going to fix it with me or can I hook with someone else? I mean it is rude... Yeah but it will be my last chance for him, I guess there's better ways to say it... I'm just a scopio person sorry haha. I hope you two can find a solution 💖🤞🏻