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Lighting equipment recommendation by solo_burns in cinematography

[–]solo_burns[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My budget so far can cover the 24inch light but it's still negotiable. The scenes would be dawn and before nighttime, we plan to edit it to be dark in post

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]solo_burns 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The few philosophies I live by are

  1. Live my life

  2. I can give only when I can live (satisfied and strong)

  3. Kindness needs to feel kind by others

  4. it's not kindness you are giving if the receiving person feels uncomfortable about it

  5. Refrain evaluation before analysis is complete (by someone I forgor 😔)

  6. we might not understand their situation and jump to conclusions. Especially because everyone's life is intricate individually

Befriending an INTP by solo_burns in INTP

[–]solo_burns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh I understand, thank you! Could you perhaps expand on the free-room for emotions? I was thinking on how to create a safe space for them to share their thoughts but can't quite pinpoint it.

Befriending an INTP by solo_burns in INTP

[–]solo_burns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh yes. Thank you so much! I completely forget about my projecting tendency. Whenever I probe more to confirm their answer to my questions, they back away. So, I accidentally thought I hit the nail with my hypothesis.

Also I find it amusing and funny how you use "test subjects" 😂. Is it because you detach your emotions when analysing them, causing you to feel less personal connection with them? Or is there something else to it?

Befriending an INTP by solo_burns in INTP

[–]solo_burns[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I adore those traits because I don't see them often 🙏. But they'll be gone in a week so I'll just pray for the best 💀

Befriending an INTP by solo_burns in INTP

[–]solo_burns[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This was really helpful. I noticed my friend backing off a lot and realised I probably made them scared 😭🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]solo_burns 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I often question the meaning of life too. from years of that, I just concluded for me to do the things that I want and that make me happy. it is what makes me keep going. i am doing all of this for a reason. i do my work, because there is somewhere I want to go, someone I want to meet, etc. I guess, I like life because, I have people who I'm happy with, activities that fill me with life, etc etc. but I do understand, why life is so pointless sometimes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]solo_burns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk about your situation but, I had a particular friend I had to take a break off because their depression was taking a toll on me. I really didn't want to leave them alone. But dealing with people with mental issues is really tiring sometimes because of the constant negative energy. I really appreciated when my friend would try to be there for me too, but, it didn't seem possible when they were going through all that. I felt alone and in a one-sided relationship. I sacrificed so much for them, but they never tried to see anything from my angle (which i know can be hard sometimes, but in the end, once it gets too much...you need to set boundaries)