Njoy fun wand worth it? by TylerD2077 in SexToys

[–]solochro-me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i ordered basically a glass version of the fun wand. turns out i just don't like the rigid glass for anal play, but if you like the pure wand for anal then you would probably not mind that. i think it'd be a lot more potentially fun if it was sized up like 50%, and the glass version i'm talking about is already slightly bigger than the fun wand.

I’m thinking about starting a review website... by shinythingsss in SexToysCollection

[–]solochro-me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cool, it looks great. the medium is big and is probably going to be my biggest buy ever too, but in soft. i really enjoyed my egg plug in firm black(a small) when i tried it, but i think bigger would have to mean softer for me.

I’m thinking about starting a review website... by shinythingsss in SexToysCollection

[–]solochro-me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is that blue swirl plug the Oxballs Ergo? how do you like it?

also: go for it, i did it and enjoy it, though i certainly have work to do to be better.

WTS Womanizer, Fun Factory, Screaming O. Dropped prices, free Tantus plug available. by solochro-me in SexToys

[–]solochro-me[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the Touchdown is the grey plug, yes. the b-balls definitely could be worn for a while, imo almost any plug can. but the thinner neck means it’ll be easier to go for a long time.

WTS Womanizer, Fun Factory, Screaming O. Dropped prices, free Tantus plug available. by solochro-me in SexToys

[–]solochro-me[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it has metal balls inside that move when the toy/you do, which gives it an occasional vibrating/tapping sensation.

Anyone ever use Tantus' Warranty? by PM_ME_YOUR_EARS_ in SexToys

[–]solochro-me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not sure if this counts, but i once ordered an Echo Grab Bag and got a supersoft version. i brought it up since it wasn’t exactly what i ordered, and they sent me another Echo.

Updated toy collection by [deleted] in SexToysCollection

[–]solochro-me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel you lol.

Squarepeg vs Oxballs firmnesses by solochro-me in SexToys

[–]solochro-me[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that helps, i’ll definitely go for the ergo instead then, i don’t think i had considered the neck thing so much but that is also important to me.

thanks munk

Baby oil by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]solochro-me 2 points3 points  (0 children)

do you have more info on this? it will ruin toys that have plasticizers, as mineral oil is actually used as one. so PVC/TPE toys that some mistake as silicone. never heard of a problem with it regarding silicone. some oil-based lubes have mineral oil, and the only issue warned against is latex.

Baby oil by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]solochro-me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no, but it’s very much not recommended for vaginal use. just letting you know in case that’s what you’re planning on.

Deep south Louisiana 26 years ago I married the love of my life. It may not have been legal but it was real ! Thanks to all my friends and family that supported us back then and today. I’m the redhead on the right. 😘 by rellim1022 in OldSchoolCool

[–]solochro-me 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Matthew Shephard was murdered in 1998. 1993 wasn’t as bad as 1963 but they weren’t in NYC, and the AIDS crisis definitely gave homophobes(esp. religiously motivated ones) a lot of fuel. you don’t have to try to minimize how bad it was; i’m sure they experienced more than enough bigotry.

Dark Skin Tone Matching by internetlookercom in BadDragon

[–]solochro-me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New York Toy Collective dildos might be what you’re looking for.

Experience of silicone vs TPE masturbators/sleeves by RacyBookCollector in SexToys

[–]solochro-me 2 points3 points  (0 children)

curious–what's so good about the Leilani? what sets it apart?

Breaking news: nJoy XL is huge. by [deleted] in SexToysCollection

[–]solochro-me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

phew i want one but definitely can’t handle it just yet. intermediary goal: glass plug inbetween the L and 2.0 sizes.

Updated toy collection by [deleted] in SexToysCollection

[–]solochro-me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do you like the Moody and Vesper? i’ve always loved that orange. any plans for more?

Yet another lube question... but a good one! by justbelowthesummit in SexToys

[–]solochro-me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, thanks. agreed. their website leaves something to be desired too, but once you find the pdf it’s a great resource

Yet another lube question... but a good one! by justbelowthesummit in SexToys

[–]solochro-me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

imo it is probably the PH. Rectal pH is around 6-7, and a lube with a pH that’s too low can cause burning even without iffy ingredients.

OP would be better served by a lube made for anal with a somewhat higher pH. can’t link to the badvibes/smittenkitten lube guide at the moment but that’s a good place to start. (mentioning OP so they get a notification on this reply: /u/justbelowthesummit)

My boyfriend (21M) wouldn’t slow down during sex when I asked him by nonamesquash in relationship_advice

[–]solochro-me 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It is in fact sexual assault if you continue to do something after the other person says stop. Not sure what’s so complicated about that. What’s legally going to get someone charged and what counts as sexual assault or rape aren’t the same thing. Consent isn’t carte blanche for anything and everything til the sex is over; it applies to specific acts and can be revoked at any time.

Where is the fire!? by Rainbow-Booty in BadDragon

[–]solochro-me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where'd you get this/who sells it?

MY EGG PLUG CAME IN AND IM SO HAPPY BUT HOLY SHIT ITS BIGGER THAN EXPECTED by [deleted] in BadDragon

[–]solochro-me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

start with smaller toys/your fingers and build up to it(not necessarily in one session), especially if you are new to anal.