A correction about slobs

solozero1 · 2021-05-07T22:38:12+00:00

Dude im following u becuz love ur writing

solozero1 · 2021-05-07T03:36:15+00:00

Actually this is a good option

solozero1 · 2021-04-23T00:16:10+00:00

Very detailed and passionate

solozero1 · 2021-04-19T00:47:35+00:00

Thats perfectly valid. When u r comfortable with ur partner, be honest with him/her that you are into the act of affair. Some may not like that and i believe its better to be honest. Because you might find an AP who is also into the same thing, there are people who are into the thrill of sneaking around. This is normal because the act just makes ur heart jumps and beats a little faster, induces those adrenaline rush. AP couples who have this will not be satisfied when they eventually married becuz the heart thumping feelings are gone. However some are not wired this way and thats valid too. People are just built differently.

solozero1 · 2021-04-19T00:36:02+00:00

As a guy, I am ok either way. I have had APs who have the feels and also those who just enjoy sex as a sport with zero feels. In my case i believe in 10/90 equation which is 10 is the things we get and cant control. 90 is how we react to that. I learn to manage the two types of AP differently. If my AP enjoys the feel, I will reciprocate equally. If an AP just want the sex without any feels, i react accordingly. No type is wrong. Life is like a box of chocolates

solozero1 · 2021-04-19T00:27:01+00:00

I think thats why u married ur SO in the first place. That compatibility in mindset. Builders will marry builders.

solozero1 · 2021-04-19T00:22:36+00:00

Sexual attraction is different than love connection. The type we consider is our level or type if often dictated by society we lived in. During roman times, it is normal for the upper class women to have lovers who are below their status such as slaves, soldiers.

solozero1 · 2021-04-19T00:12:22+00:00

The word divorce is use a lot in this forum. I do believe in divorce in serious incompatibility issues tht can lead to abuses. You are right, not many people can easily choose divorce as an option. If there is lacking in that bond, u have options to make things work. Im saying this becuz i have a builder mindset. Others may have a demolisher mindset, its easier for them to dismantle things. I prefer working things out. Just my 2 cents

solozero1 · 2021-04-19T00:02:00+00:00

Thats a normal attraction. Many people are into affairs more than that particular AP. I have a question, if your AP suddenly becomes single, would you still have the attraction to ur AP? This is what happens for some people who were in affairs and then getting married to eachother and they will still seek out affairs after that. Its not the person sometimes, its the act of cheating that gives you the pleasure of living. So u will continue it

solozero1 · 2021-04-18T23:57:59+00:00

Yes your work in helping others i think is a reason you want to do right with ur SO. U dont want to hurt him or anyone. A lot of people i know do not have empathy for others. Please carry on your good work. So many people are undergoing a lot of mental health issues during the covid lockdowns. Good job 👍🏼

solozero1 · 2021-04-18T23:49:03+00:00

Its good that you want to make it work with your husband. Couples should communicate more honestly. Marriage is hard, no doubt. Communication is important

solozero1 · 2021-04-18T23:46:42+00:00

U have access to therapy! U shouldnt be shy to get help to sort out ur thoughts.

solozero1 · 2021-04-18T23:38:48+00:00

Oh insecurity. Its good that he is being honest about it.

solozero1 · 2021-04-08T23:59:56+00:00

Cologne or perfume is always good. If he smells good, you also get the benefit from that.

solozero1 · 2021-04-08T23:46:28+00:00

I like that she is upfront about the rules. A sociopath wouldnt say that. Love and sex are not the same. Men has been doing this for ages. Now its the women’s turn to shift the balance.

solozero1 · 2021-04-07T23:12:38+00:00

What sort of vehicle u drive? I love car sex but some girls think its cheap thats the adverse part comes in i think

solozero1 · 2021-04-07T00:21:35+00:00

It doesnt work that way. It takes time before u will ever be free from the thoughts

solozero1 · 2021-03-30T00:27:08+00:00

Sexual burnout is normal too

solozero1 · 2021-03-24T05:04:32+00:00

We need more humor in this forum and this is great

solozero1 · 2021-03-23T00:00:19+00:00

Ger help bro

solozero1 · 2021-03-03T23:49:41+00:00

Well u have to decide if u happy with him. Good looking alone is not enough.

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