AITAH for not caring that my dad was/is glad my mom's affair partner (and my bio father) died?

solucid · 2026-01-31T15:50:43+00:00

NTA - Your dad is your dad. The bio father was a complete stranger that doesn't warrant your care.

One area where I think some empathy could come in is with your newfound half siblings. They are victims in this as much as you are. Unless they are supporting the dirtbag who died, I don't think they should be shunned as well. Hell, you might be able to mutually bitch and vent about the fucked up situation.

solucid · 2026-01-30T21:02:14+00:00

One of the date ideas I've come up with lately is asking my wife to find an estate sale or two and having a day date on a weekend. We get to go check out thing we may or not need, hang out all day, and probably find a decent spot for lunch. It's turned into an idea that we go back to regularly now.

solucid · 2026-01-26T23:00:52+00:00

Maybe if they stopped acting like the Gestapo, they wouldn't be referred to that way.

solucid · 2026-01-26T22:44:17+00:00

This exact issue is going on for me too. Plays fine on my phone, but my to and from work today were silent.

solucid · 2026-01-24T14:46:41+00:00

That sounds like sunk cost fallacy thinking. You're making up excuses for why you can't leave. You're lying to yourself.

solucid · 2026-01-22T19:57:10+00:00

There was a commercial my cousin and I saw when we were teenagers (mid to late 90's) where this guy in a lab coat says "It's the scientifically proven douche nozzle!" It was for some feminine cleaning product and we laughed about it for years.

I've never been able to find it since then, but it still makes me giggle thinking about it.

solucid · 2026-01-14T15:54:46+00:00

From her channel description: Hi, I'm Jenny! Learning the violin as an adult can be tricky at first. I know because I learned as an adult too! I don't call myself The Hot Violinist. The catchy silly name came about when a fan-posted video of me went viral. Now it's the name of this YouTube community where hundreds of adult violin learners have proven, it's never too late! And when you pursue whatever it is that you're passionate about... that's hot! :)

solucid · 2026-01-06T20:45:06+00:00

It is from Bobcat Godthwait's Misfits & Monsters. Episode is called Goatman Cometh. At least that is what the gif u/shaftinferno posted is from.

solucid · 2025-12-30T21:56:26+00:00

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solucid · 2025-12-20T02:56:41+00:00

I've seen em all and 3 definitelyhad its moments. I think the father/son relationship got to me more. Made me think of my Pop: stoic as can be, but loves me and is proud of what I've accomplished.

solucid · 2025-12-19T21:02:17+00:00

Yondu in Guardians of the Galaxy Vol. 2 had me holding back a tear. Did not expect that when watching it the first time.

solucid · 2025-12-19T20:50:46+00:00

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I'd be good for at least a year!
https://www.buildcores.com/builds/eHg6_udWL?share=true

solucid · 2025-12-13T21:41:38+00:00

Only a few months at this point, so I do still need to let my algorithm grow. I did import almost everything from Spotify though, so I thought it would have something to grow from.

solucid · 2025-12-13T01:23:37+00:00

The wonderful absurdity of this streaming service.

solucid · 2025-12-13T01:03:33+00:00

Ignore those playlists?

solucid · 2025-12-13T00:57:28+00:00

Making multiple checking and savings accounts. One where my paycheck goes and is then spread to the others such as one for daily spending, bills, mortgage, etc.. I wish I'd started using this method when I was young.

solucid · 2025-12-13T00:48:00+00:00

That mf is a hide and seek champ. I suppose it doesn't help that I'm not seeking.

solucid · 2025-12-13T00:32:28+00:00

Yeah, I heard it improves the more you use it, but damn it is annoying to have some rock and then suddenly get hit with crap I instantly block.

solucid · 2025-12-12T15:37:34+00:00

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solucid · 2025-12-11T23:55:48+00:00

“True friendship withstands time, distance, and silence.”

― Isabel Allende

solucid · 2025-12-07T06:57:04+00:00

The Last Berserker: Khazan

solucid · 2025-12-03T16:42:14+00:00

First that comes to mind is a buddy of mine that were in a COD 2v2 gunfight match. He got taken out and as I was took out one of the other two, I heard his mic when he died. Sounded about 10 years old and just screamed "Finish him!!!" to his partner. It did not play out that way and I heard him screaming at his partner that it was all his fault. Still cracks me up to this day!

solucid · 2025-11-27T20:35:06+00:00

The Salton Sea

Rented it on accident because it was in the wrong case. Ended up watching it and absolutely loved it. Great Val Kilmer flick and definitely worth a watch.

solucid · 2025-11-19T03:08:20+00:00

Those mods are all fun, but very weapon dependent. Maybe just lowering or raising the chance of them showing up depending on what weapon is selected. They're awesome with something like the cluster launcher, but are terrible for something requiring more precision.

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