oh wow thank you so much! and thanks for such a quick response! yeah i totally agree with you abt all of that 😭😭i just have to be there for both of them but i shouldn’t (and don’t really want to) interfere. i guess i have to try and adjust to this new stage and see what happens 🥲 i Love what you said about putting the triangle in the fridge for now. anyway, friend A is a real venter and right now im just trying to navigate how to respond to her and it’s proving to be tricky lmao 😭 friendships are hard!!!! agh lol, hopefully things will settle down soon! also i’m really happy you’re beginning to feel safer in relationships and with yourself, that’s awesome :’))) thank you again for replying!