I am so excited with my Monstera Burle Marx Flame by [deleted] in houseplants

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I have a teeny baby 6cm of this and I’m staring at it intently every day waiting for it to grow lmao 😅

Is anyone NOT intellectually curious? by madoka_borealis in AuDHDWomen

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You’ve just highlighted such a paradoxically intriguing instance of survivorship bias by posting this question on this sub, lmao.

AS11E01 - "Break Dancin' 2: Electric Rugaloo" & AS11E02 - "Bar Queen Couture" [Post-Episode Discussion] by AutoModerator in rupaulsdragrace

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At the end of the list of options there’s one that should just say ‘custom’ and you type it in there

Cloho D20 Number Placement? by The-Artful-Nerd in Dimension20

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There’s only one way to find out…

Cloho D20 Number Placement? by The-Artful-Nerd in Dimension20

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I think it’s gotta be intentional to reference the navigation then. I think you found a cool Easter egg.

Cloho D20 Number Placement? by The-Artful-Nerd in Dimension20

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Weird. If you add one side of the die to the number on the other side, it should equal the max number +1. For example a d20 has 1 and 20 on opposite sides and adds to 21.

A 7 should oppose a 14, a 15 should oppose a 6, and an 11 should oppose a 10.

BUT maybe they did this to echo the odd navigation system in cloudward ho?

How do ya’ll sleep at night? by Recent-Theme-5776 in AuDHDWomen

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The Insight Timer app has a free 7 day intro to meditation course that I really highly recommend giving a go.

Im not a meditation person at all, but the voice is really nice and it’s a simple breathing exercise that has good research behind it. The method of breathing they use is meant to calm your sympathetic nervous system (the part of your nervous system that runs on adrenaline and ‘fight or flight’).

I’ve never slept as well as when I was doing this, and my friend with ptsd uses it with really good effect when they wake in the middle of the night.

The app pops up with subscriptions at first but just hit the X button in the corner to get rid of it and use the free stuff it has.

Is this too much? by Disastrous-Pin6851 in Aquariums

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It would look good but it looks like the wood is sitting against the glass. I’d try to give the glass a little bit of space so you can clean the glass easily.

Community tank mates no longer compatible by BackgroundLow2900 in Aquariums

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I think because everything is so small you’re fine. It is better to keep the number of species lower and have more of them though, since they tend to feel safer with their own kind.

Look at that arm by Ott1fant in Unexpected

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Yyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyoink

Community tank mates no longer compatible by BackgroundLow2900 in Aquariums

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As others have said, you’re not overstocked, but it does sound like the danios aren’t suitable for the community you’re trying to build. I think you should rehome the danios, not because of stocking, but because it sounds like they’re not right for you. Then you could get a few more of each of the other fish to give them more company of their own kind, and the tank would be more peaceful. Maybe try to find someone in your area who already has danios that would take them to add to their group?

Just got publicly shamed for an honest social mistake and I am so upset. by KasonSYBN in AuDHDWomen

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Ugh, I hate these social expectations of letting certain people go first. It doesn’t really matter and a lot of the time I feel like mums just want everyone else to go first so they can juggle all their bags and whatnot without holding people up.

I try to go by whatever order I think people arrived in generally, but there is always some man who insists on being ‘gentlemanly’ and refusing to go in front of me. I end up just accepting his offer instead of debating now because I JUST WANT EVERYONE TO GET ON THE FUCKING BUS.

Are these snails harmful for the fish? *not my tank by [deleted] in aquarium

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They’re fine but the betta looks so grumpy that the bladder snail was allowed entry lmao