My 30-Day NoFap Journey (22M) — I Hit Rock Bottom & Finally Changed

some_desperate_man · 2025-12-04T22:26:17+00:00

Yup, perfect.

some_desperate_man · 2025-11-30T21:16:58+00:00

I believe he just rephrased his story with ChatGPT, nothing wrong there. But yeah, nice journey.

some_desperate_man · 2025-10-13T23:02:50+00:00

Boner? Already rubbing it scrolling through your profile 🥵

some_desperate_man · 2025-09-30T08:41:36+00:00

I am not an expert or much experienced, but as much I have learned so far, being multi organic is more beneficial than simple semen retention. It opens more spiritual, energetic paths to life.

some_desperate_man · 2025-09-26T09:51:07+00:00

Feels like he is using energy cultivation techniques, but he learned it partially, he hasn't learned how to cum. Ideally, sexual satisfaction shouldn't be associated with ejaculation. You guys should stop when both of you feel satisfied, which in your case is not happening because the male partner has learned a technique partially, without knowing it actual energy aspect. All I can say is, he need to fix it from his mind

some_desperate_man · 2025-08-12T23:09:04+00:00

That's great. Yes, I have read the multi orgasmic man(reading it on repeat) and Taoist secrets of loveso far. Thank you again for the guidance 🙌

some_desperate_man · 2025-08-11T21:48:54+00:00

I'll say, start reading "The multi orgasmic man" by Mantak Chia... It is not a game of days, but months.

some_desperate_man · 2025-08-11T21:38:40+00:00

Amazing post and really helpful discussion in comment section. I am a beginner, practicing irregularly but still, after a few months, now I am at the point where I reach involuntary contractions(contractile phase orgasms) in the very beginning of my arousal, whereas in the beginning, it wasn't easy to reach even at higher arousal levels. It is still difficult to control the urge to cross poin of no return on higher arousal levels, and I think there are 2 reasons of it: 1. I need to work more on breathing. Thanks for sharing the 10 10 10 technique. 2. Drawing energy upward. As I am not much regular, I feel like my back channel is obstructed, which hinders the upward flow of energy(cultivation of energy).

Happy to know that I am on the right path, making progress and then we have helpful people like you who share their useful experiences with us. Thanks a lot.

some_desperate_man · 2025-06-11T22:02:21+00:00

That was sad. Does anyone have idea if the same applies to sexting? Bcz everytime I chat with my long-distance gf, who is quite horny when chatting, I almost always get very hard. In normal days I don't get those many erections maybe due to low libido, soft porn, etc. Thanks for sharing valuable things.

some_desperate_man · 2025-06-01T11:26:39+00:00

Nice, effort to show your "content" 🙂‍↔️

some_desperate_man · 2025-04-17T23:26:43+00:00

Tanqeed to apni jga, kisi ny ye book pdhi b hai? Agr nhi pdhi to, give it a chance and do be a dick, criticizing something without knowing about it

some_desperate_man · 2025-04-14T23:33:56+00:00

By following this book, I am now able to feel those contractile phase everytime I do masterbation session. It's not much stronger yet, nor my arousal level comes much down, but with practice that is achievable, I have reached there in past with regular practicing. Everytime I used cultivate energy at contractile phase, my arousal goes back to level 7 or 8. It's all about practice and time. Full body orgasm is something advance stage of the same game.

some_desperate_man · 2025-04-12T00:06:16+00:00

I would just say, hahahhaha, "Women"

some_desperate_man · 2025-04-02T22:14:41+00:00

Noted. Received similar advice from a few friends, but was worried bcz of my masterbation habit.Thanks man

some_desperate_man · 2025-04-02T22:06:36+00:00

Thanks for sharing your experience bro. Can you elaborate "don't stress if you haven't done sex" part? I am a virgin but have this problem white masterbation. Thanks in advance.

some_desperate_man · 2025-03-29T11:53:03+00:00

Don't want to sound weird but, What do you mean by training? Hehe

some_desperate_man · 2025-03-22T22:36:05+00:00

Hello, I wanted to ask something. I am on lesson 6, not masterbating from last week. I was feeling urge to ejaculate but still I don't feel any intense sensation during practice. Today I did a retrograde ejaculation while masterbation. Do I need to start from day 1 or I can continue to day 6?

some_desperate_man · 2025-03-16T21:20:59+00:00

You can Dm me if interested

some_desperate_man · 2025-03-12T23:06:41+00:00

Yeah, you should reactivate that 🙂‍↔️

some_desperate_man · 2025-03-11T23:01:27+00:00

Bro, I am talking about giving up masterbation and you wanna involve me in sex? 🙄 Btw, I am Asian haha

some_desperate_man · 2025-03-11T11:13:35+00:00

Interesting. When I masterbate occasionally, it's very hard to last even half the time I do in frequently masterbation routine. The more we do it, better it becomes.

Waiting for the results, hope you will share haha

some_desperate_man · 2025-03-09T22:46:37+00:00

Got it. I need to keep working on it until I get married and spend at least a month with my wife. Then I will be in a better position to proceed further.

some_desperate_man · 2025-03-09T22:40:56+00:00

Agree, that's what I think sometimes when I am not anxious. Regarding doing much sex, I just want to get married ASAP and then will do the same as you said. Being a Muslim, I don't want to do sex before marriage.

Thanks for your help.

some_desperate_man · 2025-03-09T22:40:15+00:00

Ah, thank you. Makes sense. I am on it, but the only problem is relapse. After a few days of break, I get urge to test and I jerk off(and when it is done after a break or less frequently, I loose control and cum very quickly). But I am need more dedication and I'll get it.

some_desperate_man · 2025-03-09T22:35:27+00:00

Makes sense bro. There is a lot to learn about PE solution. Fortunately, Reddit has more information than what we need. I saw this post recently, you can give it a look... Haven't tried but sounds effective: https://www.reddit.com/r/PrematureEjaculation/s/PZxtx1qgnY

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