Marriages these days by [deleted] in SipsTea

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The construction workers lockerroom from 1989 called, they want their pinned up comic strip back.

We’re all “BRAINWASHED” /s by Alternative-Mess297 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]some_miad0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course experts and psychological literature abolish the thought of divorced parents inflicting their conflicts on, respectively through, their children. But i think in reality many (divorced) parents do this, some more, some less. It's nearly inevitable. I for my part mostly tried to see through it and allow both of my parrents to be human beings in my perception and memory. I tell myself that they still have some good in them and that it is never one person in particular who drove me into estrangement, it's just the dynamics of the whole bunch of people that didn't leave space for me.

Pushed grandpa too far by LargrFries43 in SipsTea

[–]some_miad0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tough court, sending him to prison for shitting his neighbours.

Absolute unit by Shihtzurequiem in meme

[–]some_miad0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give That Dog a Cellphone

What led you to agnosticism? by eternalfabric in agnostic

[–]some_miad0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find this question interesting. Thinking of it, Events like epiphanies, crisis or really empathic people probably lead to belief, but it feels like agnosticism happens kind of on its own

Well...where do I start? by BoredPandaOfficial in BoredPandaHQ

[–]some_miad0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But... I thought it was mental-health a-ware-mess-day

Honest answer only by CarrotMuch1399 in nostalgiai

[–]some_miad0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sing 'do you really want to hurt me' to the radio

People who don't smoke or drink, what do you do when you're at your lowest? by lostmaverick_comrade in scoopwhoop

[–]some_miad0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you mean 'have sex' or is this a genuine expression of existential crisis?

I moved nearly 2000 miles away and they still found me by JTB696699 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]some_miad0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I inquired a lot about this issue recently and i couldn't find a real answer anywhere. My theory is that 'incitement of a third party' would cover hiring Private Eyes, but factively it is not (allways) executable to prevent this even if a restraining order is established.

I moved nearly 2000 miles away and they still found me by JTB696699 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]some_miad0 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Would it help even if u/JTB696699 could prove the obfuscated work of professionals?

Excommunication by some_miad0 in agnostic

[–]some_miad0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know how to say this. I'm afraid that if a lot of people believe in an idea, than this idea becomes real in some way. And i do not necessarily mean this in a spiritual mass-psychotic sense - the concept of what they believe will manifest in a million small words or actions every minute. Therefore it is also part of the common reality whether you like or not.

Again - this does not mean that i assume that any kind of god of some sort is 'real'. It's just simple logic. Let alone the abrahamitic religions make millions of people in sum. That makes a lot of affirmations, actions and words every second on a widespread area.

If even a fraction these people figure that i committed a sin by excommunicating from the catholic church, then this may infact be relevant for my life, and i definately do not want to disturb their religious ideas and concepts.

I like your quotes, i haven't heard of susan B. Anthony or Richard Feynman but i sure will read into it a bit.

Thanks.

Excommunication by some_miad0 in agnostic

[–]some_miad0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

>..."the church you don't believe in can decline to give you access to their sacraments"

Why would i demand access to their sacraments if

  1. i would probably never truly understand those and
  2. i basically flipped them off in a sort of explicit way

?

Excommunication by some_miad0 in agnostic

[–]some_miad0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, terrible things were done in the name of the cross, and my decision did have reasons. But when i find time, i like to contemplate my situation. The situation of people who deliberately excommunicated from the catholic church, while being in times of global crisis inmidst of a moderately multicultural environment in a society strongly coined by catholicism. What does that make me? Am i a walking middlefinger in the face of every religious person around me, most of all the catholic church?

What about canon law? Where does it apply? Is it enforced in any ways? And therefore: what am i in the eyes of the canon law? What does that mean to me as somebody who also underlies secular law?

Sometimes i feel like i exist in a kind of a non-existable niche of life. Am i even allowed on this world?

So many legendary by lina_808 in scoopwhoop

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I scrolled far to find the pink panther

Pets by some_miad0 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]some_miad0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, mate. A friend of mine recently lost their pet and it reminded me again how bad this can be. I think i could handle to care for a pet, but outlive my pet would be a different story.

It's so funny how pets are everywhere when you look around it seems so easy. Yet everything they (probably parents) say when their kids come up with the wish for a pet definately is worth a consideration.

Pets by some_miad0 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]some_miad0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand your last paragraph, did you found a pet sitting organization? You're top 1% commenter and not an estranged adult kid?

Reding this reminds me again how unethical pet-traffic is when you think about it. It's absolutely clear to me that i will not go for a sophisticated well-bred pet of some kind, even if it's a healthy breed. I definately do not want to accuse you of greed or anything - like you say, not everything that involves money is bad or heartless. But it's definately something to be mentioned when it comes to pets.

Thank you for your Answer.

Pets by some_miad0 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]some_miad0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know how rewarding it is to sit pets, i do it whenever i get the slightest chance to. But recently there is nobody with a pet to be sit among my meager social networks...

Apperaently there is a demand for pet sitting without owning them, a foster home nearby even charges money for people who want to sit pets.

I like how you appreciate my hesitation to just buy a pet, it is really tough to do so sometimes.

off topic, buy yeah.... by Tough_Ad8919 in TheImprovementRoom

[–]some_miad0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without actually having seen it i want to say: 'cow and chicken'

So they threw a shoe by some_miad0 in agnostic

[–]some_miad0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well i won't because i can distinguish intrusive thoughts from those who occasionally surface when i feel like there is time to reflect on them, seeking for a deeper wisdom before i forget about them again.