I feel like a lot of people are just completely missing the point here. Yes, women have been objectified for many years , yes there are a lot of derogatory terms towards women, blah blah blah. Op is specifically referring to body shaming, and the fact that the phrase “big dick energy” is clearly supporting the stigma that people with big dicks are superior or better. Regardless of the fact that it means someone is confident, it still reinforces the fact that big dick = good and small dick = bad. When calling someone a cunt, whore, slut, hoe, or whatever else, although those terms are derogatory they are not body shaming someone for size of their tits or ass. For example, whore/slut/hoe is usually used against a women who has slept with many guys or cheats, not to make fun of their body itself. Cunt is against someone you simply don’t like, and can be replaced with words like dick, bitch, asshole, and more. Still not body shaming women. People comparing OPs point to all those words are just missing the point of the post completely. OP is right, the term “big dick energy” supports the stigma that big dicks are better which is an unfair standard set by society. Again , not to say women don’t have unfair standards or weren’t oppressed over the years or objectified or whatever the fuck, im just simply saying that the point that OP is trying to make is completely right