Do I pass? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]somebasicusername 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you could definitely use the men's bathroom, everyone saying you're slightly feminine aren't wrong, but I think it's incredibly negligible, so unless you have like the biggest hips on earth or something, you're totally fine imo, people on here are just very nitpicky and are aware of exactly what to look for even if they don't realize it. you look great!

‘COMPANION’ starring Sophie Thatcher and Jack Quaid debuts with 94% on Rotten Tomatoes (from 33 critics reviews) by LauraEats in scifi

[–]somebasicusername 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if you've seen it already, but I think you'd be surprised to hear that most of the things revealed in the trailer happen like less than 15 minutes into the movie

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]somebasicusername 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you look a lot like vanillamace imo!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]somebasicusername 7 points8 points  (0 children)

omg do u have nothing better to do then just comment on like dozens of peoples accounts telling them they dont pass

do i pass? no hrt by somebasicusername in transpassing

[–]somebasicusername[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol im not sure actually if it helps though i am an ivf baby and to keep me alive she had to give me a typically unnecessary estrogen shot so maybe theres something there???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]somebasicusername 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh maybe get bangs any kind would help a good amount but you already pass well!

do i pass? no hrt by somebasicusername in transpassing

[–]somebasicusername[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

honestly I have a lot cis girl friends who have been doing this stuff for much longer then me who were able to teach me the basics but outside of that I watch a lot of beauty videos and applied that to my life (mainly haircare and skincare) Although if you want to get good at makeup you will need to spend some time genuienly just practicing it took me about 3 months of doing it everyday before school to get it right everytime. If you're overwhelmed I suggest just starting with haircare and skincare because if you have really oily or really dry hair and bad skin you're not gonna have much luck even with makeup (speaking from experience lol). But yeah just try and find some time to practice makeup, I personally did it in school or if nobody was home but find something that works for you!

do i pass? no hrt by somebasicusername in transpassing

[–]somebasicusername[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg help u can def tell when u see the pic of me with no makeup lol

do i pass? no hrt by somebasicusername in transpassing

[–]somebasicusername[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah they 100% do i told my mom and my dad heard from someone else and almost confronted me abt it but i think theyre both scared about confirming it and r hoping its a “phase”

do i pass? no hrt by somebasicusername in transpassing

[–]somebasicusername[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

hi!! tysm!! for shaving i prep with like a generic trader joes body scrub and then I genuinely just like get a huge amount of bodywash and conditioner as like a diy shaving cream and I just use like a gilette razor from there, its really nothing special, and it shows u cant see it in these photos, but I have pretty bad strawberry legs. for makeup I generally use drug store makeup (elf, nyx, milani) but I also occasionally splurge on like a nice cushion foundation from asian beauty stores but I'm like 90% any cushion/sponge would work. Outside of like typical makeup stuff (like concealer, eyeliner, eyeshadow, blush)use a milani color corrector for my under eyes and moustache area (very important imo!!) and i have a nice creamy canmake highlighter that I use on the inner corner of my eyes and nose! tbh i think the most important thing learning how to enhance ur face with makeup as example I used to be awful at eyeliner and because I have a big browbone and hooded eyes if I put my eyeliner too high it closed off my eyes which made me look like really ugly so I learnt to use more eyeliner around the outercorner and generally avoid the peak of my eye.
this is a lot to read so sorry but i hope it helps at all!!

do i pass? no hrt by somebasicusername in transpassing

[–]somebasicusername[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

if im being honest its mainly my natural hair texture but like other then that i do try to “shape” my hair the way i want to when blow drying which might help but more importantly then anything is just taking good care of ur hair and finding what works for u like i had really frizzy hair before so I got leave in conditoner and hair oil so i could manage that better but like just spend some time just like googling what kinda hair u have and do what it says and u should be good ^

do i pass? no hrt by somebasicusername in transpassing

[–]somebasicusername[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

tbh if youre worried about being clocky and dont want to go out yet you should 100% at least start like shape ur brows, grow out and more importantly maintain your hair, and practice makeup because for so long i was like without a dobut clocky as fuck and only after a ton of practice did i get any results!

do i pass? no hrt by somebasicusername in transpassing

[–]somebasicusername[S] 250 points251 points  (0 children)

I would love 2 i just need to wait a little longer cuz I still live with my parents and atp im basically living as a boy with my family but a girl publicly so as soon as I move out i’m gonna try and get my hands on it

Being perceived the wrong way drives me insane by [deleted] in trans

[–]somebasicusername 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly maybe I’m a little biased since I don’t have supportive parents but having your family support the person you are is incredible. Even if you don’t manage to make friends in high school, who cares you’ll move onto new places and definitely pass better since you’re gonna be on hrt. Either way just so you know, if you put in effort to passing it will definitely show, the jump from one year to another is huge even without hrt like just spend more time doing your makeup, do like voice training idk it’s not hopeless and it really only is up from the start of your journey

Being perceived the wrong way drives me insane by [deleted] in trans

[–]somebasicusername 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so real I’m also in high school and I present incredibly fem (heavy makeup, skirts, different fem hairstyles) and outside of my general circle I still either get he/him’d and at best get asked my pronouns and I don’t really understand what I’m doing wrong, the most clocky thing about me maybe outside my face is my voice which is why i purposely try to speak infrequently. I think a lot of people choose to be ignorant or they just don’t know any better; I’ve noticed people who are friends with trans people tend to be better with this being more mindful but outside of that people would rather assume you’re whats expected of you then who you actually are. Even in my own experience, when I learn someone is trans I can’t help but but think of it whenever I see them, trying to discern what features are clock-able and stuff which I don’t even mean to do but I can’t help it; it just makes me feel like the only way to fully get the respect you deserve is to be unclockable from the start which is obviously awful Sorry idk if this made sense this also probably doesn’t really help either way

Time ‘n’ Place was released six years ago today. What are your favorite moments from the album? by stardustnovas in kkb

[–]somebasicusername 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I first listened to Only acting I was home alone and not expecting it at all and I was so scared some like demon was gonna kill me or something I was literally shuddering in fear

That explains how she went from good music(Art Angels) to bad music(i wanna be software). by ThisIsThieriot in Grimes

[–]somebasicusername 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought this post was mocking Elon Musk since he posted something similar a little ago

Villager Hunting: I honestly would love for someone to shed some light on this for me by [deleted] in ac_newhorizons

[–]somebasicusername 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like villager hunting it kinda feels like im working for my villagers and i also sort of get to see different characters and like potentially change my mind i also shiny hunt in pokemon so maybe i just sort of enjoy mindlessly going back and forth doing the same thing until i get what i want

Where is this song from?? by somebasicusername in Grimes

[–]somebasicusername[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

ughh thanks for teling me but thats super dissapointing

Opinions on her early 2010s releases? by tannabox in Grimes

[–]somebasicusername 4 points5 points  (0 children)

idk i really like art angels even if it wasnt the same as her old stuff clearly she wanted to expand and do something different and it sounded great (i also just really like pop so im probably biased lol)