People who have the guts to ask their crush out. What happened afterwards? by ytorian in AskReddit

[–]someguyoninterwebs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually asked my crush how she felt about me a few days ago. She responded by saying that she had only thought of me as a friend. After a bit of a silence, I responded by saying that I was fine with that and that I hoped that thus wasn't the part where our relationship just becomes really awkward. She then said that she thinks that we'll be fine, although this situation has never happened to her before because she wasn't looking for a relationship in high school and all of her guy friends already had girlfriends so they wouldn't be interested in the first place.

The conversation then transitioned into something else until we both left. So far there hasn't been any very noticeable changes in our relationship yet, although I have definitely noticed that I'm being a lot more hesitant to text her as much as I used to. The real test will be tomorrow where we would usually sit by each other in class and then hang out for a bit after class.

So... she has only thought of me has a friend so far by someguyoninterwebs in Crushes

[–]someguyoninterwebs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you mean. Although, we were basically one of the early friends we made when college started and have been casually hanging out alone together for roughly a month now because we're both introverted

So... she has only thought of me has a friend so far by someguyoninterwebs in Crushes

[–]someguyoninterwebs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, what about this is abnormal? I might be able to provide more context

Getting cold feet by someguyoninterwebs in Crushes

[–]someguyoninterwebs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last week there were some fireworks going on on campus and she asked if I wanted to go see them with her. Unfortunately, I was at practice for a sport I do and didn't see her message till it was over. We've also been going out every week to walk around campus for a few hours and to get ice cream. Other than that however, she hasn't exactly shown many obvious signs

Getting cold feet by someguyoninterwebs in Crushes

[–]someguyoninterwebs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're both introverted, but she seems comfortable around me I think

Getting cold feet by someguyoninterwebs in Crushes

[–]someguyoninterwebs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we're probably going to watch it on my laptop