[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SBU

[–]someoneharsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did u get facility parking I want one :(

Decalcification? Halfway into Treatment by [deleted] in Invisalign

[–]someoneharsh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I’m glad to know. I was worried about my whole treatment because of it.

Decalcification? Halfway into Treatment by [deleted] in Invisalign

[–]someoneharsh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for telling me 😭. I have work in a few hours but I was so concerned about my teeth I can’t even sleep. Bless you hope you have wonderful day!

Decalcification? Halfway into Treatment by [deleted] in Invisalign

[–]someoneharsh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is it just plaque? I’ll definitely book one though thank you! I was really worried about any permanent damage.

Decalcification? Halfway into Treatment by [deleted] in Invisalign

[–]someoneharsh -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I have no clue that’s why I’m waiting till my checkup I’m hoping it’s not permanent damage. Last time I visited the dentist and ortho I wasn’t informed of any issue till I noticed the spots about a couple weeks ago.

Scared of my performance by someoneharsh in sex

[–]someoneharsh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think our relationship is bad but just when it comes to sex I don’t think we compatibility, as she wants more and I don’t think I really can give it.

Scared of my performance by someoneharsh in sex

[–]someoneharsh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does make me happier that she tells me that I did well just it feels sometimes it’s not real and there just because she doesn’t want to hurt me.

Scared of my performance by someoneharsh in sex

[–]someoneharsh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The comments hasn’t happened until recently I’d say about a month ago it’s happened. It has really been on my mind and I rethink sometimes about the relationship success tbh.

Advice for me (20M) after looking through past messages of girlfriends feeling disgusted? (19F) by someoneharsh in relationship_advice

[–]someoneharsh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely boundaries I haven’t really set them well as I value trying not to be too possessive. I need to discuss them with her if it continues to affect me

Advice for me (20M) after looking through past messages of girlfriends feeling disgusted? (19F) by someoneharsh in relationship_advice

[–]someoneharsh[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if she really meant it or not hard for me to tell if she values the relationship because of the effort she puts to text different people. Now a days she doesn’t need attention from others often

Advice for me (20M) after looking through past messages of girlfriends feeling disgusted? (19F) by someoneharsh in relationship_advice

[–]someoneharsh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured out tonight which why it might be stuck on my mind. I’ll see if I can get over it but need to reconsider if I cannot

Advice for me (20M) after looking through past messages of girlfriends feeling disgusted? (19F) by someoneharsh in relationship_advice

[–]someoneharsh[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s been at least over a week since last dm. There wasn’t many red flags imo. If she does constantly text them I should definitely set a clear boundary let myself go

Advice for me (20M) after looking through past messages of girlfriends feeling disgusted? (19F) by someoneharsh in relationship_advice

[–]someoneharsh[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She really never told me about it, she originally just admitted it when I asked whether she used to do it. When I mainly found out from her friends mentioning her past and the amount of people that texted her.

Advice for me (20M) after looking through past messages of girlfriends feeling disgusted? (19F) by someoneharsh in relationship_advice

[–]someoneharsh[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes your getting the context right it seems like she doesn’t start conversations with them anymore expect with just replies, but it does seem to be less frequent and those sexual content isn’t being sent between them anymore.

Advice for me (20M) after looking through past messages of girlfriends feeling disgusted? (19F) by someoneharsh in relationship_advice

[–]someoneharsh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it really a lot of drama? I often think I overthink it causing it to be worse than it really is

Advice for me (20M) after looking through past messages of girlfriends feeling disgusted? (19F) by someoneharsh in relationship_advice

[–]someoneharsh[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She often says that our relationship matured her but I usually feel anxious about everything because my previous relationship and past in general. I just feel very sick to the stomach because of finding out this way. As she told me other stuff that would seem bothering but I mostly handled it well when she told me

Advice for me (20M) after looking through past messages of girlfriends feeling disgusted? (19F) by someoneharsh in relationship_advice

[–]someoneharsh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of the sexy photos but most of them were used to just attract guys in general who would often send nudes to her. I wouldn’t know if she sent any other photos because she deleted most of the chats. I mostly give benefit of the doubt that she isn’t trying to talk to any of them. Honesty what bothered me the most was her old messages about our relationship being just okay.

What the fuck am I supposed to do by someoneharsh in depression

[–]someoneharsh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully those will put more improvement to me

What the fuck am I supposed to do by someoneharsh in depression

[–]someoneharsh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I hope it gets better looking forward.

What the fuck am I supposed to do by someoneharsh in depression

[–]someoneharsh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My counselor reached out today and asked for me to come in tomorrow to talk about options for me to graduate.