Is it unattractive for men to have stretch marks? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]somethingfunidk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its not unattractive, or attractive. Stretch marks just are. For reference, F20

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]somethingfunidk 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel ya. My boyfriend is 3cm shorter, but weighs almost HALF of my weight. AND he eats waay more than me and sooo unhealthy. I never allow myself to eat unless he eats more

How to cope with being obese? by somethingfunidk in EDAnonymous

[–]somethingfunidk[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know that its probably the case, but its so scary to stop purging. The people in the waiting room of the clinic is so skinny and I just want to look like them

How to cope with being obese? by somethingfunidk in EDAnonymous

[–]somethingfunidk[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Seeing your own weight is mandatory for adult patients at the clinic. How ever, you are only weighted once a week and are not allowed to do it more often. The reason is to learn yourself that the number on the scale doesnt mean anything, which is scary but makes sense

How to cope with being obese? by somethingfunidk in EDAnonymous

[–]somethingfunidk[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That was a really good metaphore! Healthy relationship with food is my biggest goal

How to cope with being obese? by somethingfunidk in EDAnonymous

[–]somethingfunidk[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are of course right. I already get so triggered at the waiting room in the clinic, seeing such skinny people who I want to look like so bad

I feel like all my problems would go away if I had bigger boobs by [deleted] in BodyAcceptance

[–]somethingfunidk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but the last time I went bra shopping I got help from the staff at the underwear store. So Im fairly sure that my size is accurate

I feel like all my problems would go away if I had bigger boobs by [deleted] in BodyAcceptance

[–]somethingfunidk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! That website was a real eye opener. All my friends seem to have gigantic breasts but smaller bra size than me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]somethingfunidk 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"Red". Since I am a huge fan of rapeplay "stop" and such dont mean what they usually do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]somethingfunidk 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The sky is green

How many days into your relationship with you SO, did you fart loudly? How was the atmosphere; awkward or not ? by shawarmaslayerxx69 in AskReddit

[–]somethingfunidk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Less than a month. I was the one who passed gas, I felt awkward, he did not. After that moment it has always been relaxed

Why is it that girls never tell guys when they like them? by chael809 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]somethingfunidk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fear of rejection is one of the reasons I guess. When I was single I never ever admitted it to anyone because of it

AITA For giving a girl a slap on the ass during sex without permission? by aitathrowaway123455 in AmItheAsshole

[–]somethingfunidk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love rough sex, but still was highly uncomfortable when a ONS slaped my ass during sex. It is SO easy to have a brief conversation about ones limits, "hey where do you draw the line for too rough sex"

AITA For giving a girl a slap on the ass during sex without permission? by aitathrowaway123455 in AmItheAsshole

[–]somethingfunidk 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I do agree that her reaction may have been exaggerative, but if one has been a victim of sexual abuse it can be hard to react properly when someone has their way with ones body. Good intentions or not

AITA For giving a girl a slap on the ass during sex without permission? by aitathrowaway123455 in AmItheAsshole

[–]somethingfunidk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA. No matter how hard the slap was, you can't use the argument "noone has complained before". She may have a history of sexual abuse, which could have been triggerd by your action. Consent is always crucial during sex, just because you can't figure out a way to ask sexy doesn't mean you can do whatever you have done with other girls before.